Should i have sex with him?

Ok im 13 and ALREADY wanna have sex. Idk what to do. I talked to my best friend about it and she just said, If you love him you think that its the right decision, then go for it I love him to death, hes not only my boyfriend but he is my best...

friend. But one thing is standing in the way, He is moving this summer and not coming back for a year. I don't know if I could deal with that especially if we had sex. i know he wants to cause he said that im the only girl that he is ever going to love so we might as well not wait. i have known him since 3rd grade and he is not the Player type of guy. PLZ someone help me... =/

Okay, you're thirteen. So definitely wait. Especially because if something happens..you're going to regret sex. HOWEVER you'd probably not regret spending time with him and doing things with him. Just not sex. Plus, it is better to wait because of pregnancy as well. You don't want anything to happen that you'd definitely regret. Hope you make the right decision! Goodluck.

YOU R WAY R WAY 2 YOUNG!!! but if you deside to have safe sex!!!

yh i agree! ur rly young! but if YOU think ur ready...its ur choice then! but b careful and safe!

good luck!

There is more at stake than your virginity. Self respect, respect for him and possible embarrassment and shame. Now on the other hand if you decide to keep your virginity for the right time as well as right guy you will gain a whole lot of positive things and feelings. The heat of the moment will fade either way. But what remains would be a lot different. I hope and trust that you will make the decision to do the right thing. Good luck to you and him Gino

people up above, FYI she wasn't asking if she was to young to have sex.
i think if you love him and you know he's not a player, and you are ready, go ahead.

(lazycrazy) There is a reason why a person is not legally an adult until they are 18! FYI 13 is to young.

If he says that you are the only one that he will ever love, then why are the 2 of you not exclusive? I don't think he is a player, but something is pushing him for sex. One possibility could be that he doesn't want to lose you. Another is that he is leaving and he doesn't have to commit to you. Either way the fact that you and he are not exclusive tells me that it is just hormones, which is not a good reason to have sex.

One more thing, you do know once that you start having sex, its hard to not have it...so, you have sex with him, while he is gone for a year...who will you be having sex then? Who will he be having sex with?

yea totaly go for it!!!!!!! who cares about ur age? if you love him go for it, and make it special, like spur of the moment kinda thing

ok, so the decision is TOTALLY up to you. personally, i think you are too young, but i also dont know you personally... dont do anything you will regret, but think about what you are getting into before you get into it.

If you get pregnant, then your life is ruined FOREVER... No one will like you and you'll have a part-time job at the local burger joint until you can go to night school to get your GED....

Yeah, your parents will resent you, HE will resent you, his PARENTS will resent you, your friends will abandon you... etc., etc.

DON'T DO IT IF YOU WANT A HAPPY LIFE... WAIT UNTIL YOU ARE 18+....

u too probably do love each other and that is great....my best friend's parents and my bf parents found each other at 13 as well...but they waited to have s*x...im not gonna say that ur too young cuz i hate wen ppl say that to me....let me put it this way: i think that ur at a time in ur life wen havin s*x wuldn't be to ur advantage....if u kno that he is the one and he kno's that u r the one then u guys won't mind waiting...im not saying u have to wait til u get married or wutever...im just saying that u shuld wait..see how things work out....cuz also..s*x changes ur relationship...if he's ur best friend then obviusly u must talk alot..and spend a lot of quality time just hanging out..once u have s*x there is a chance that u mite lose that...it sux to think about but it happens...im not gonna go into all that cr*p about STDs and getting pregnant and ruinin ur rep cuz u've probably heard that a million times...just know that its out there and that it happens...but it is ur choice...if u feel ur ready then no one here can stop u...but also think about this....if u have to ask us (total strangers or even if u had to ask a family member or friend) do u really think ur ready...if u have to question whether its the right decision...then i think u shuld take some time to really think about it....also...talk to ur bf about all this...about all the things that culd happen..that u culd lose, that u culd gain...and see if its worth putting ur relationship at risk to have s*x now....and if he insists that u have it now...think about whether he Is really after just s*x if he's forcing it now...then he doesn't really love u....if he really loves u...then he'll talk this through with u and see ur side of it...and he won't pressure u into anything...
hope this helped...good luck