Am I stupid?

I had sex with this guy about a month ago... Im only 15 & he took my virginity.
He said he likes me, but won't tell his friends about me.. B/c im not in his
'group' at school. But he wants to have sex again, soon..
I want to do it, b/c I like love him, but... Im not sure.

What should I do?

well you probably dont want to hear this but I think you should know. he may be using u. im sorry but most people in their lower teens dont no what love is. im 16 and I dont know what it really is or if im really in love. tell him that you would rather not. if he says but we had sex before just tell him thats your final decition and if he loves you hell respect that and if he tries to pressure you he isnt worth it. if he doesnt pressure you then he probably respects you and isnt using you. you forgot to mention how long you two have been going out. if it is less then a year then you are going way too fast and if it is at least a year then he should be introducing you to his friends by now. he should have been doing that from day one. just because you guys arent in the same social class doesnt mean you cant talk to his friends. its like the caste system all over again. my boyfriend and I arent in the 'same social class' either but I know all or most of his friends and he knows mine. if you are going to have sex again I suggest you meet his friends first. im sorry again but this wall between you and his friends could also mean he is cheating on u. this guy sounds like bad news. dot worry you are not stupid you just made a mistake. just look on the bright side your not pregnant so its not too late to get out of this. im sorry I had to be this harsh and I hoped I helped tell me how it goes ~kaitlyn~

Dear heather_michele,
I answered your other question...Of course you don't have sex...in fact have no further contact with him. He's making a fool out of you. It's time to grow up and see how difficult relationships can be. You need to take a hard look at your self and ask why you are letting him abuse you?
Sue...good luck

no your not stupid your young and your confussed so juss put your head up and your foot in his butt and get over him he's worthless and shes rite hes juss making a fool of u

yes I think hes using you and going back and telling all his friends and there prob.laughing behinde your back

Sounds like hes using you.

no. don't do it.

red flags:

-he won't tell his friends about you
-he says he likes you (sex should be fore love, am I right?)
-you say you , like, love him (you're hesitating...you don't love him...trust me)
-you're 15
-he told you he wants it again and soon.

tell him no, and ask him never to talk to you again. this guys is using you.

He is using/abusing you. Sex, and love are NOT the same thing, and it wont get a guy to fall, or commit to you!

People who love you will treat you w/respect, consideration, courtesy, honesty, and compassion. The sooner you wake up to the fact that this whole situation is unhealthy, and move on, the sooner your life will improve!

We have to find that strength within us, that I know deep down we ALL possess, and respect ourselves. If we dont than no one else is going to!!!