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Is it sick that I've been obsessed with sex since I was 7?

Asked by fau 3 months ago, 9 answers.

When I was about 7 years old I became obsessed with sex appearantly after spending the summer with my dad. I don't remember anything though. I feel like a freakshow. is there something wrong with me?

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Answered by darthornx on May 01, 2008, 06:58PM
| 274 answers.

no your not..your whats called a nympho, its basically that you love sex...so no your not weird,just make sure it doesn't control your life

Rhiannon Answered by myzarri on May 01, 2008, 07:19PM
| 203 answers.

I still feel like a freak.

Answered by briand88 on May 01, 2008, 08:08PM
| 409 answers.

Ell (girl): It is better than being obsessed with work or hurting people. Everyone has something that isn't ideal to them, but to someone else, it will be ideal. You aren't a freak for being human. If everyone was the same and perfect life would not be worth living and people would all be ugly. Try to improve the things that you find to be flaws, but attaining perfection is not the goal, just being a good-hearted person and not hurting those around you.

Me "working" hard in Iraq Answered by tizubythefizo on May 01, 2008, 09:17PM
| 66 answers.

hell,almost all of us men are obsessed with sex, so I'd say it's perfectly normal for a girl to be as well. Can't have double standards :-)

flower Answered by zorbot on May 02, 2008, 05:25AM
| 688 answers.

As long as this isn't effecting your relationships or normal every day routine, there shouldn't be much to worry about. It's normal to think about sex, to like sex, to want to have sex, etc. What isn't normal is when it starts impeding on everything you do example: you don't go to work because of it, your friendships or family relationships have been ruined because of it. That is when you know you need help because it's more then just a healthy sexual appetite, it's become an addiction, something that you are using to escape from everyday life, something that is harming you and those close to you. If this is the case or you are worried that it might be, go see a counselor or therapist to talk it through and help you deal with the problem.

One last thing, it sounds like someone has been convincing you that somehow spending time with your father for the summer and your 'sexual obsession' are linked. The fact that you don't remember anything is maybe because nothing happened. If you feel like a 'freak show', maybe it's because someone has been making you feel that way. Like I said if you feel comfortable with who your and aren't harming yourself or others, there is no reason why you should feel like a freak or why someone else should let you feel that way.

Sue90 Answered by sue90 on May 02, 2008, 05:31AM
| 2599 answers.

Dear fau,
You are not a freak but you are in for a rough ride. Since you are asking now, now is the time for some professional help. It is ridiculous to think that your life will not suffer from what you went through. It will not go away, it will not correct its self and you must get into counselling. If there was indeed sexual abuse, and it sounds very possible since at 7 being obsessed with sex is a sure sign there was. It has to be addressed. It will indeed effect your life and will indeed stop you from having the quality of life you deserve. Don't ignore this.
Sue...good luck

Not nice to laugh at other's short comings Answered by ethmer on May 02, 2008, 12:25PM
| 1407 answers.

I don't think there is anything wrong with you, although you don't say how old you are.

It is possible that something happened around that time of your life that has influenced you into having a sexual predisposition.

That isn't necessarily wrong, depending on your age.

If it is something that really bothers you, then consider getting some counseling. Counseling can help you discover the cause and, if needed, help you with a cure.
 
If counseling isn't available to you, consider utilizing someone on this site as a sounding board to help you work your way through your emotions.

Rhiannon Answered by myzarri on May 02, 2008, 02:38PM
| 203 answers.

I know my dads not necissarily a good guy,
but I... I don't know..

Me "working" hard in Iraq Answered by tizubythefizo on May 02, 2008, 08:30PM
| 66 answers.

myz, you shouldn't feel like a freak. I've been obsessed with sex since I discovered mas*urbat*on at 9.

I don't know if something happened between you and your father, but if it did, it's ok for you to talk about it. That's the only way to heal that scar.(And it might be completely unrelated to your love of sex, you might just be obsessed with sex because it feels good,and is addicting)

I myself was molested by my babysitters son when I was 5 or 6(he was 13 or 14,maybe 15 or 16, not sure). I can talk about it now, and talking about it really is the only way for me to keep from bottling it up inside and snapping.

If you don't feel like talking about it(if something did happen, not saying it did) in an open forum, but need someone to talk to who's been through a similar experience(again I don't know if you were or weren't, I'm just saying this in case something did happen) you can always email me @ Fun mail me
or through funadvice's private message system, or AIM (also named tizubythefizo) or Yahoo messenger (anime11840). Just email me if you want to talk to me on a messenger service, as I don't regularly log onto the messengers, need to know in advance of the time so I can be sure to be on.

If you weren't molested or anything, you can disregard what I've typed. But if you were, and you're trying to talk about it, I commend you, it's tough at first, but really needs to be let out instead of bottled up.

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