Am I right or wrong?... please help me

ok I've been with this guy for 8 months, hes 20 almost 21 and im just 17, im in love with him like real true love but I dont feel like I get treated the same way by him bc of my age. I've always been true to him never did anything wrong but I made mistakes, we all make mistakes, he says that they hurt him but he knows I didnt mean to hurt him intentionally. well hes got this strict thing with me and guys, he doesnt like me having guy friends nor talking to them, at all, on the phone or at school, or at all just in general. but he says its bc he doesnt trust me bc hes had bad relationships in the past and its hard for him to trust just anyone. but hes in love with me dont you think he should trust me first before even sayin he loved me? hes says my trust had died down bc of my mistakes. well me and him were havin a rough week last week and my friend gave my number to this guy in my class, he ended up sittin next to me in class and talkin to me about my boyfriend, I never talked to him on the phone but he did call me I just didnt answer I didnt have my phone with me... my boyfriend heard the message and freaked out, well hes got this friend named natalia, its his ex girlfriend and he talks to her all the time expecially about me bc he says that when im not there she is, thats seems a little bit messed up to me but I found sum letters she wrote to him like right after me and him got together and they say that she loves him and will never forget about him and that she misses him and stuff, im sorry but I dont trust her at all, expecially since shes 17 too and shes slept with a lot of guys like around 18, what am I supposed to think? I dont want him talkin to her but all of his other friends im ok with except for the girls, im a jealous person, but hes never given up natalia but I gave up all of my friends, he wont give her up bc I wont give up my best friend amanda whom I've known since 4th grade, I cant just give her up shes been there with me before him and maybe even after him if we dont work out, I tell him all the time that I want to be with him forever but you know the crazy thing is that we fight so much im so confused you probably are too but please help me out what should I do?

Girl you are young the relationship with your boyfriend is puppy love not true love. trust is the # 1 thing in a relationship, without it there is no relationship in the world that would last. also having to give up your childhood friend just to make him happy is not right. I suggest that you leave him. He is not right for you. any man who is in love with you should love you for who you are, Not mold you the way he wants you to be. As for the mistakes you have made are not as big as the mistake you are making Staying with this guy.

Wow, you need to get out of this relationship. Take a step back a look at your situtation...there's too much drama. I promise you, you will feel so much better if you leave him. I was in the same situation around the same age as you, with an older guy, and its nothing but trouble. At first I lost all of my friends and I thought no one cared about me but him, and then I met these awsome girls who made me realize that I was in a destructive relationship. After I opened my eyes, it was easy to leave him. Needless to say he keyed my car a couple times but it was worth leaving him. And FYI, no guy wants to just be your friend. I've had plenty of guy friends too and you know what, they all want more than a friendship. Guys think about sex all of the time, and I'm sure you're an attractive girl, so when they're around you, I'm sure they're thinking about you and them being "more than friends."

I would also strongly advise you to reconsider your relationship. The level of control your boyfriend feels he needs to have over you -- over who you talk to, as well as who talks to you, something you cannot realistically control -- is unhealthy and, although common, abusive. Talk to him and let him know that you need to be trusted in order to be happy and comfortable in the relationship. If he cannot do that for you, leave and don't look back -- have faith in yourself that you can and will find the kind of love you deserve.

Any relationship where you have to give up your friends (male or female) is not worth it. Contrary to popular belief, a man does not need to be the center of a woman' s universe. His insecurities are not your problem. If he cared about you in any significant way, he wouldn't make you feel bad. He sounds manipulative and insecure. Lose the loser.

honey, you are only 17 and I am a 25 hetero male. have you heard the expression "plenty of fish in the sea". it's one of the most underatted expressions in our society. ONLY be with someone who respects and TRUSTS you. being only 17 you are seeking love but only give love to those males who respond in turn. you have your entire life in front of you, don't start thinking about marriage until your 25 birthday, no normal guy will want to get married before then anyway.

Well you need to tell him that he needs to put in the same amount of effort into the relationship has you are, b/c you must reall love him if your taking your time to get help with your issue. You and him to just talk about all of this and you need to tell him exactly how you feel without missing out anything!

well tell him that you made changes for him and he sould think about that if he doesn't have trust for you then I am thinking he does not love you he just wants to be then thats making the rules well listen you need to start some rules of your own and if you followed his then he should follow yours

A true love relationship is based on friendship. To keep the base of friendship strong, you have to have honesty, love, and most of all, trust. Without those, its not going to work out... I'm learning that...

IF ITS IS TRUE LOVE HE SHOULD TRUST YOU NO MATTER WHAT! Trust is the cement foundation of ANY relationship. Without it will all come falling down.

Oh my. You should talk to him. Yeh, its what everyone says! But do it. If you cant trust him and he cant trust you. Well actually, I wouldnt trust him because he tells YOU not to hang out with guys while HES hanging out with his ex! Thats not love thats playing. I wouldnt call that love! I would dump him.

It's called he is manipulating you , so don't fall for it - Stay free and enjoy your world for now