Am I ready to do a lot more than I should ?

I really like this guy. but hes a little bit older than me. and hes had more experiance then me too. hes fingered a girl bfore. and has ben givin a handjob and a blowjob bfore.

and he keeps on asking for a handjob and a blowjob from me but I keep on breaking my promises toward him. I mean, I really want to give him one. and I really want him to finger me. hes put him hand down my pants a few times, unbuttoned my pants a million times, and has taken off my shirt in his hous.

and I really want to have sex wit him too. but im only 12. almost 13. and im a lot more mature than everyone thinks. of cours we'll have a condom in use. and if I get teh pregnant symptoms ill take birth control and all. but idontkno if im ready for all of this yet. :/

please help...

god! your only 12, I really dont think this is a good idea, wait a few more years.

definately not a good idea, and how much older is he. when your that young, the older the guy you try and get with, the more likey he is a scumbag, who has no feelings for you what so ever, and is just trying to get in your pants. All guys think alike. But seriously, you do not need to be doing that kind of stuff at your age. especially if he is older than you, take my advice and date someone your own age. I know you won't listen to me but I am right, and you will find out on your own.

first of all...when you start having pregnancy symptoms you cant take birth control and be done with it hun... listen when you have pregnany symptoms it means your preganant...taking birth control will have no effect and you cant get that prescribed to you until your 18 without parents knowing...so your screwed on that babe...

your way to young...and he is just trying to get in your pants...

you dont even know what love means and you obviously no nothing about sex

so wait

but knowing an adolescent girl like you your not going to listen to anyone and youll end up make a huge mistake and wish you havent one day you'll look back on this and regret it...

btw your mother most be very proud!

If you don't know if you're ready yet, then you're not.

You're only 13. Whats the rush? And if this guy wants all this physical attention, maybe you should question your relationship with him.

Maturity is a response that is reasoned or learned, rather than impulsive. You are making a very immature decision by wanting to have sex.
The right time to have sex is when you're sure that this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with and you can handle the consequences of your intimacy. You are ONLY 12. You are not capable of comprehending the emotional side effects of having sex. The fact that you are here asking a bunch of strangers if you should, means you not ready for anything that grown up! You are a very naive little girl who thinks this boy actually likes you, when he is only USING you! This KID is basically taking advantage of you...more like raping you, and you act like its nothing! You are trying to act like an adult, but your not. YOUR JUST A CHILD! This boy has NO business putting his hands on you and taking your clothes off. This is NOT ok to do, and you need to tell your parents, because letting boys do these things can lead to rape! You are showing them how easy you are, and boys will only want you for sex.

If you're as mature as you say, then make a mature decision, and tell this clod to keep his hands off you, or you'll report him! Respect your body, or nobody is going to. Your just going to be USED, and ABUSED, and tossed away!

Dont be a fool, and give him what he wants. He will have sex with you, and move on to the next naive little girl, just like you. Being used is NOT a good feeling!

The point is to take birth control BEFORE so you DON'T get pregnant... not get the 'pregnant symptoms' as you said and then take birth control... sorry but that doesn't work.

I don't care how mature you say you are... you are still a child. Children should not be having sex. Especially not as young as you are. It sounds to me like he only wants you to satisfy HIS needs rather than giving you the RESPECT you deserve. There's a very easy one word answer... NO. If he doesn't like it, then tough luck. Obviously his response would say a lot about who he is.

Having sex that young is a huge mistake. You'll regret it, I promise. Save it for someone who you've been with for a very, very long time. I would say to save it for marriage but most people don't do that anymore. At least wait until you've found your special someone... not while you're 12 years old. Seriously. If you say you're so mature then make a mature decision and DON'T do anything physical with this boy.