Am i ready for losing the v?

I am 18 yr old girl who is still a virgin. I drive the boys mad. I have a boy friend who respects that I am a virgin still but he said when I'm ready to have sex with he's down with it. We do get pretty active tho. Well I wouldn't mind sleeping with him....

The thing that worries me is that when we went on our sec. Date he told me he only slept with 1 girl then it turned into two girls. I've met both of them. They both look like a dyke. I am very girly. should I actually trust it? I don't think I should but I like him more and more every day.

You always need to be on your toes with guys, trust me... I see it everyday... guys most of the time play chicks... there is only a select few guys that have a heart. If you are asking us if you are ready to lose your virginity, then it doesn't sound to me like you are ready... because you would know.. so I would suggest doing it, when you yourself feels ready... and be careful because *some* guys will say whatever they have to, to get to that step a lot of times its I love you and sometimes its when you are ready. I don't know how long you have gone out with this guy... but i would suggest giving yourself plenty of time with him to find out who he really is because your V is an important thing, and trust me, when you first have sex you are going to most likely be attached to that person emotionally a lot of girls have this happen to them... I hope that helps. Good luck to ya.

Jason

Sure have sex with him and then dump him and find another guy. Life is not meant to be with only one person... enyoy yourself and learn it all while you are young!