Am I ready!?!?!?

ok heres the thing,....my exboi whom I love more than anything in the world but doesnt want to girlfriend and still wants to be close like friends wit benefits,.well the other day he asked me if I would have sex wit him,..now I told him I would think about it and I have and I alreadi told him once before that I love him so much I want to loose myself to him,..I was planning on doing it for or on his bday but im not sure im ready,..I mean I want to wit him and no one else and I think im rede but how can I be sure?

Hun if your having doubts, don't do it. Doubting being ready is a sign that your not. When your ready you'll know. Please don't go ahead with it if you aren't sure your ready or not just to impress your guy. Trust me girl you'll be able to tell when your ready to have sex so don't do anything you'll regret! Hope I helped a little!!
Love ya
~Sexyblonde~

the only way you can be sure is if you are 100 percent totally ready and if you feel like your also mentally ready aswell! and seen as though your having doubts I wouldnt go through with it if I were you also sweetheart think about wether or not you really want to lose your virginity to an ex that was only kinda using you 2 get his bit! hope I helped! xxx

just remember this one thing. you dont have to do anything you dont want to do and even if you r ready make sure it is the right guy. do have it just a fling with a friend because then things will never b the same.