Am i pregnant...please answer??

ok as of today I am 3 weeks late and I have took a test and it didnt come out...I was pissed...for the last week or so I have been really tired like every chance I get I go to sleep...also I notice some white milky lotion like discharge and I had lots of...

it...cause embarassingly it came out on my man while we were having sex...also I think there is some darking of the areolas but maybe im staring too long lol..I have no nausea or soreness of the boobs...but I have back pains and cramps all over my stomach ...I have never been pregnant before so I dont know...and too I am always moist down there latey and I know every month at least once I go through a dry spell ladies you know what I mean..but no this month !!!

to find out if your pregnant take a pregnancy test 2-3 weeks after you had sex
(any sooner and the results won’t be accurate)
in the morning with your first pee is the best time
and take it when your period is due
alternatively, see a doctor for a blood test
this will both let you find out quicker and give you more accurate results