Am i over him?

I broke up with this guy about a week ago. We were very close but I knew I wasn't going to last. He's just not the right guy for me. He wrote me a ton of letters and I can't seem to throw them away. I walk around just hoping I will see him at school even...

if we don't talk, I lvoe being around him but I hate taking to him or being to close. What's wrong with me? Am I over him? I don't want to date him or be wth him in any way, but still. Help!!

maybe you're like me
I reject others before they can throw me out like sh*t

Maybe you could be just friends try it out and see if it works.

I think you're getting over him, but I don't think you're over the idea of him.

It takes a while to get over someone, and there's a process everyone has to go through. You don't have to throw away the letters he wrote to you; you can just keep them as a memory. Breaking up; whether you did it, or he did it, is going to be hard anyway. Let yourself feel bad for a few days, eat ice cream, talk to your friends, and obsess about it a little.

Just don't second guess yourself. If you knew the relationship wasn't right, then it wasn't. See if you can still be friends with him after a few weeks, or however long you think you need.

Good luck!

you had a great life with him and should have it agian ... whois this guy anyway.

his name is jake. you know about him kjirsten!