Am i not attractive?

This is for Boys ONLY. Girls? check out a similar Q back at my page.

Everyone has their own 'look at me' flirt style and get the man for it!
But I don't really look at it that way. I only flirt around with men when I am interested in being their...

friend, Not boyfriend. I AM careful about it, and in ( Rare ) cases if I DO attract them, I immediately put up my guard as a simple sign, I only wanted to be friends.
Sadly, Most the time, My flirting style seems poor and out of whack and Men just Don't - Get - A - Clue. I feel left out as I see other girls are Pros at it and notice them making tons of guy friends.

I wanted to ask Men Between 19 and 25 (Any older , Too old for advice) What You See in a Woman, What attracts you, what Turns you on, and what are the few BEST conversations a Woman has started with you. Also, things you might have in common. With me, I want to be able to work upon classic and modern cars and know their components.

Thank you Gentleman for your advice!

im 19, what attracts me to women are there looks and personality.. but most is personality. its fun to see who they are when your around them..usually a girl brings up the convo I just sit and listen to what they have to say.. im very flirty I enjoy making them have a good confidence in themselves.. its always the tiplicalspelling you have beautiful eyes, your a wonderful person, you have a great bubbly personality you get the point

Honestly...looks are huge...but not as big as personality. I can't stand beautiful girls that are total snobs and all they ever talk about is themselves. I love girls that are real. They act like themselves and aren't trying to put on some show. So if I think a girl is cute, then I find out what her personality is like. That's when you find them to be more beautiful or less attractive by that. You get over the hype of a hot-looking' girl at first if she's a stuck-up brat. What attracts me is good girls. Ones that aren't sleepin' around with every fricken' guy. Ones that don't have everything handed to them by their parents and actually work for stuff they own. Total turn on is a girls smile and how she acts when she talks to people. If she's outgoing...totally game. I love talkin' relationships with girls. What problems they've had/might have and give them suggestions. Girls don't always know what guys are thinkin', so I got to help a butt load of friends in school when they had problems. Be yourself and you'll find the right guy.

Dang, I wish I had guy friends who are very supportive.
I just turned 20 in October, I'm very shy, and a anti-socal.
I know I'm attractive, I admit it sometimes, I do wear makeup but not piling it.
I am Very much myself. I have no friends here, I feel I don't try hard enough to make
any which makes me feel like a failure. I def' Not Stuck up. I am Brunette, Not a bleached out barbie Blonde. Just plain myself.

thanks!

im use to be very shy too but im still anti socal... im a blonde and im just sometimes out in left field somewhere lol but if your pic you have is you then your very pretty

I only have time to tell you one thing.
And that is
Me and most the guys I know
The biggest turn off we have
is simply
a girl
that Cusses for no reason

The woman in the picture is not me, but I wear my makeup like that.
We could probably be sisters. I don't know. .

I completely agree with that. I DO NOT Curse which is a great deal for me.
I don't like it when either men or girls curse nonstop. It's very unattractive, and offensive. It's like they have no life nor anything Meaningful to say or talk about.
They feel they have to curse just to be apart of every other clone and they think that's cool. . to not be yourself.
Most people today really don't realize that , and its disappointing

The funny thing is, I am myself and yet, no one takes notice. No one.