Am i getting used for pleasure?

So there's this guy I met at school and he's always trying to reach up my shirt or down my pants. Every time I see him he wants to give me this big kiss. Is he trying to please me or his self? Should I let him continue? Because sometimes I like it.

He is probably doing that to you because he thinks that what girls want. If it makes you feel uncomfortable don't let him do it. If you guys aren't dating then there really isn't a reason he should be doing that and it should be questionable. Sounds like he is hormone raging teenage boy.

I dont know how you can think any differently! No gentleman would ever go up to a girl and do that! When a guy truly likes you, hes not going to try, and get in your pants every time he sees you! If you dont want to be taken advantage of, then you need to tell this disrespectful pig to keep his hands to himself! Exactly what do you think you are going to gain by letting him keep doing what hes doing? Its not going to make him like you, or fall for you if thats what you think! Guys will only see you as being an easy target, to get what they want off you. He obviously knows how far he can go, and hes going to continue pushing himself on you, until YOU tell him to back off! Maybe think about a being in a commited relationship before letting a guy get physical with you. It will save you a lot of grief/heartache in the long run.

hey I know what you mean
just let him know that you like it when he touches you but not other guys
so he realizes that you like him but your not easy

have fun

hey I know what you mean
just let him know that you like it when he touches you but not other guys
so he realizes that you like him but your not easy

have fun

eh, if you like it then let him I guess. sounds to me like you both enjoy it. but don't let him do anything that you don't want to do. You have to draw the line somewhere or else things will go too far and you may get into things that you are not ready for yet.

if you like it it's o.k. to let him do it when there isn't people around, but if you feel uncunfterble in any way don't let him touch you