Am I bisexual?

im not sure if im bisexual. this is something that has bothered me since about 9th grade and im and 10th grade now. I don't know really, I mean I would never ever ever have a relationship with a guy because thats gross and I love girls, but sometimes you know I think about guys sexually. you see when I first started mas*urbat*ng (bout 7t grade) I thought of girls you know, but that got old to me. so now I think of guys, but the thing is I would never really act upon it with a guy because I just couldnt. am I normal? I mean seriously. I get plenty of girlfriends and stuff its just I don't know. someone please help. I don't know. I have never really talked to anyone about this because I don't know if all my guy friends would feel the same way or not and I dont want to take the chance to even bring it up and then they all the sudden think of me as weird. it just seems that everyone these days is bisexual. is that not the normal thing? think of this, if its wrong to lust over guys and girls then why does God allow us to do it. I have prayed to him many times that if it was wrong to help me or make me stop, but still I still lust over guys too. I don't know someone comment on this. I guess I just need to know if other heteros feel the same way I do!?

Don't woory. Only your real sexual paractice will resolve this question.
Do not think too much of your thinking )

but like I said, I woudl never act upon anything with a guy when it came down to it. I just cooudlnt do it.

Well, I understand that you feel this now, and maybe never will happen to you anything like that you afraid of (bisexual). But nobody knows all the situations you (anybody) may meet in the later life. The shortage of women played several jokes on sailors, soldiers, even college friends, etc. Anyway, when girls are not accessible, or before you meet your first girl, I mean petting etc., that could satisfy you, some common mas*urbat*on with an other boy is still not bisexual. I think you are in this mood nowadays. So, do not worry, wait for the real sex.

what do you mean wait for the real sex? ihave had real sex with a girl, but it was bad. its not that I didnt want it it was I was scared though. then we broke up because of our parents and never got to try it agian so I had really no time to imporve or what not. you know what im saying?

what do you mean wait for the real sex? ihave had real sex with a girl, but it was bad. its not that I didnt want it it was I was scared though. then we broke up because of our parents and never got to try it agian so I had really no time to imporve or what not. you know what im saying?

IF you CAN PICTURE A ROCK HARD CO*K IN your HEAD AND STILL GET OFF THEN you REALLY ARE A BI-SEXUAL TRY DATING A GIRL IF IT WORKS THEN your BI AND IF NOT THERN your NOT BI

I cant just picture a naked guy and get off I have to be looking at like porn from the net or something. I do have girlfriends. all the time. I have had sex with a girl too and like I said before it was bad because I was scared, it was a one time thing, and we broke up before I ever had time to get good at sex.

thanks. that did help. I feel a lot better now.

jonny

Hi Jonny, I keep saying that everything is okay with you, so far. The first sex when a boy is „scared” as you were (and I were just does not count as „real sex”. Real sex is that when you are loose, can laugh at the girl and do her. Even if you are bisexual. It is pity this girl just left you, but I think you need an other one; a little older lady to introduce you into the „real sex”. Maybe you do not know; thousands and thousands of young men have to pass this experience: the first sex is not so uplifting as they thought and hoped. And thousand and thousand girls have to go through the same situation. And most of them get over the problem, and will enjoy the „real sex”. Anyway; you will get the valid answer for your question when you ’ll have an opportunity to make a choice between a girl or a boy going to bed with. Your possible phantasy about hard cocks may mean an effort to fortify yourself for the nex „real sex” with a girl; you just give yourself certain reassurance. See this picture: inka men fortified themselves this way
http://www.travelblog.org/Photos/10824.html
Most of them were straight, beleive me.

no you r not bisexual............... I have read that strate guys think of other guys wile they are jacking off..... it is normal I will admit that I think about guys and girls when I jack off

Fantasising is a normal part of sexual awakening. If you feel that you could never put into practice the things you have fantasised about then I doubt very much that you are bi-sexual. There are many women who fantasise about being with another woman who would never consider doing it in real life.

All your mind is doing is exploring its sexual self in a safe and natural way.

hun im bi been bi my whole life. You never know it until it begins to show. So no worries its a normal thing. You might be but not in the interactive like way. Thats how I was til my first girlfriend. thats when it all changed and I figured out I was. Just try it and if its not the same then let it go. Thinkin of guess while doin stuff to urself is actually really normal. Trust me I know it can get boring looking at the same thing to 'enjoy' youself let it be that way. Just try something new hun
best of luck