Am i being used?

ok im really upset about this whole thing im kinda messing around with this guy his name is stephen and I mean age difference is a lot hes 18 and im 13 but I mean age doesn't really matter to me or him and like hes asked me out and I never did say...

anything about it at all.
but I mean I feel like im being used.
I mean we're not going out or anything but I mean I've done oral with him but he messes around with other girls to and he wants to take my virginity away to and I mean I just feel like hes using me
because ill call him and he will tell me that hes hanging out with some girls but then he told me to call him and then like he will be telling me what he did with these girl nights before and ill still do stuff with him and I just feel like hes using me I guess cause I mean I feel like hes using me on his extra time when he needs a sexual favor and I the only one who thinks that im getting used but then im letting him aren't I??? I dunno I just feel really used because hes doing stuff with other girls to and I feel like I guess I do stuff with him anyways cause its the sexual attention I want and I like him for some odd reason can anyone tell me if they think im getting used ?? and I feel jealousy comes a big part in this whole thing cause I get so mad when he starts to tell me stuff hes done with other girls }=0 can somone plzz help me

This guy is definately a user. Your a cute girl you could do better. And I recomend waiting until your older to lose your virginity. You should wait until your married. But if not at least wait until your in love. Or at the least dating the huy. Because he is just using you. If he wernet then you guys would be going out. But your not and hes still fooling around with other girls. Get out quick. And at the rate hes going he could pass you some kinda STD. Hes a user. And being with him is illegal. So if you don't want to send him to jail I suggest finding a new boy. Its for the best.

Dear kirsten,
Lets not beat around the bush....this guy is trouble. He has a psychological problems. You are in danger of being raped, molested or worse by this guy. Tell an adult about this immediately. Don't worry you may get into a lecture and parents may be upset but you will walk away with your life. There are several red flags here that shows this guy could really hurt you. Do not call him, do not take any calls from him...stay very far away from him. You are being groomed to be his next victim. Don't take this lightly...I'm sure your parents don't want to loose you. What is happening is not normal and don't believe him if he says it is...it's not. Be a brave girl...you may be saving another girls life by coming forward.
Sue...good luck

Sue has a point with the saving a girls life, or future. Maybe you should consider coming forward, if not that, get rid of this guy forever. He is scum.

Ok...

You should not be dating an 18 year old when you're 13. he is definitely using you.

Stop seeing this guy immediately, don't have sex at all with anyone until you mature more.
What's your home life like?
This sounds like you're looking for attention that you're not getting at home?
You need to talk to a counselor about these problems you've been having.
You sound incredibly confused and sexual activity is the worst thing you can be doing right now.

You have to stop and think...
This guy messes with other girls and uses you when he wants.
Is this the guy you want to lose your virginity to? NO...
This guy is committing a crime by messing with you. It's statutory rape.
he's not being sexy. He's molesting you.

#1 Stop seeing him
#2 Stop being physical with anyone
#3 talk to someone... a pastor, a counselor, anyone in your life who will listen to you.

You'll be fine if you just slow down. Take it slow, think before you act, and please try to be smart about who you allow to touch you.

He is definetly using you hun!!! dont let him treat you this way.......you are taking some big risks here becos he is an adult and you are a minor so you should not be engaging in sexual activity in the 1st place. Second he is messing around with others girls doing god only knows what and then you are giving him oral sex!! how do you know he hasnt had sex with other girls without using protection? you need to be careful becos he could catch something becos he sounds very irresponsible and then you could catch it! And third why are you letting him use you like this? when a guy wants to be with someone they should only be with one person, if not they are using you as a booty call, and once he gets your virginity he will be bragging around how he was your 1st and he isnt a good guy, not one you should trust enough to give it to......guarenteed once he has you he will forget all about you! dont do it to yourself!

If you feel like he's using you, then he probably is. You know yourself better than anyone else, and if you're not happy, then you shouldn't be spending your time trying to make him happy. I think that since he's so much older than you and you're able to please him sexually, that you feel special... you don't need to be with him. You can find someone who wants the same things as you. You don't need to be in such a rush. He seems like he uses ALOT of girls. Don't let yourself be another one : (
Good luck

Hun you dont think age matters? Well it does when one of them is an ADULT, and he is messing around with a MINOR! That does matter!!! He is USING you, and you have to stop letting him!! He doesnt care about you whatsoever. Hes a low life dog preying on innocent young girls!! He will tell you everything you want to hear just so youll give him what he wants. You know in your heart hes a player, so be strong, and dont be his victim anymore!!

how the hell does callin her a slut help her, we are here 4 support, not to call her names