Am i a slut for wanting to have sex at age 13?

Okay..so im 13..and I know im in love with him..[and he loves me 2]
And I reallly feel like im ready..
We have been waiting a long time for this day..
And im compleatly confortable with him..
And we have talked about it..
It will be safe sex.!
And...

I have done all the research.
And we have both been tested..[nothing]
Butt..im only 13..am I a slut for wanting to have sex with him?

OKAY, ITS BAD THAT YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX AT A YOUNG AGE BUT YOUR NOT A SLUT BECAUSE I CONSIDER SLUTS, THE ONES THAT SLEEP AROUND AND HAVE ONE NIGHT STANDS... ALSO YOU SHOULD KEEP IN MIND ABOUT IT CAUSE YOU WILL NEVER GET YOUR VIRGINITY BACK... ITS SOMETHING REALLY IMPORTANT... WHEN MY FRIEND DID IT SHE REGRETS IT NOW... BECAUSE HER BOYFRIEND WOULD TELL HER THAT HE LOVED HER AND SHE WAS FALLING FOR HIM TO SO THEY HAD BEEN TALKING ABOUT SEX AS WELL ... AND SHE ENDED UP LOSING HER VIRGINITY TO HIM AND THEN AFTER SOME MONTHS HE BROKE UP WITH HER... SO YOU SHOULD THINK ABOUT IT ... I HOPE MY ADVICE HELPS YOU...
BYE

well we have been dating for a year and 1 month.!
im a virgin..and he isnt..!
im just really confused.!

Dear 425hott425,
Just wait for a while longer...if you are ready you'll still be ready later on. You know that birth control is not 100% safe. So not matter what type you use you are still at risk of becoming pregnant. At 13 your are not ready to be a mother. When it comes to sex you always say to yourself first...if by chance I did get pregnant could I care for a child, financially care for it, be a good role model, and have a safe and secure home for it. The answer in your case at 13 would be no. Don't become just a statistic.
Sue...good luck

There is nothing wrong with you. It is really normal for a 13-year-old boy or girl to think about sex a lot, be curious about sex and even want to try having sex. Sometimes these feelings may be overwhelming.

Here is what is really important: Even though you may feel turned on or horny, it doesn’t mean you are ready to have sex. You aren’t. There is a lot more to having a good sexual experience than just feeling desire or being curious about what sex might feel like. It is really, really important to also have a healthy and trusting relationship with a partner before you have any kind sexual experience.

It is also important to understand all the good things and bad things that can result from having sex. Sex is not a bad thing, nor is it wrong when it is taken seriously and is shared between two people who understand the entire concept of their actions. Sex is a big deal because physical desire does not equal emotional readiness. Humans are physically able to perform sexually at an early age, but they are not mentally or emotionally prepared for the consequences that come with sexual activity. As difficult as it is for young people to hear, teenage romances are not forever. The teen years are a time of social awakening, asserting independence from parents and spreading ones wings to learn how to fly. Every romance feels like forever to a young person, but the fact is that love interests will come and go through those years and then at some point, the one lasting relationship will form that will be the one person that is worth a commitment. It is at this point that people often begin to feel regret over past sexual escapades, having wished they had saved this special moment for this special person.

13 year olds don't understand that in order for sex to be a good thing, you need two people who are mature enough to really love and trust each other. When you don't have that, sex is bad and leaves the girl feeling like she's been used.

Don't do it.
Just wait until your a little older.
He might just use you for it and leave you.
Respect yourself and do the right thing:
Just WAIT!

you should wait a little longer... I'm pretty much where you are.. I've been dating him for the same amount of time as you too... but I'm 16...I WANT to have sex but the thing is I know if I do it now I will regret it later... if y'all both love each other y'all can wait atlest a little longer... WANTING to have sex and being READY for sex are two different things... and sometimes wanting to have sex can make you think that you're ready... I've had to friends have sex because they wanted to have sex but neither were ready... and they got caught up in the heat of the moment and they both regret it... you should wait till you're a little older... I know you love him and you think you're ready but keep a few things in mind: 1) what would happen if you got pregnant? 2) what happens if you get pregnant and your boyfriend leaves you? 3) what happens when your relationship (which seems to be good since y'all have been dating for a long time and are so young) becomes based on nothing but sex? 4) How would your parents take it if they found out? would they be mad, disappointed, lose all faith and trust in you?

Also I would say talk to your parents I know it will be awkward but I think it would be better if you talk to them.. because when you can talk them about it then you are REALLY ready to have sex.

funmail me if you need any more help...

Theres nothing wrong with having sex BUT having sex at such a young age isn't a good idea caues of many things. 1st is your body is still changing, dont mess with that. 2ed your emotional state is also in flex, wich caues stress and bad decisions. 3rd sex is great but its not everything. You have a lot more (non sexual) expreiances to come in life dont get in a hurry. find your self and know who you are before you allow others to deside for u. your not a slut. I dont know what the situation was rather you gave in to preer presure, of advanced it, or what but I glad nothing unexpected came from it. learn about the roumors about sex. one is you can't get pregnat the first time. well my friend proved that wrong. if you do decide to have sex aging at such a young age (and I beg you not too) please use protection, birth control, and other things of that nature. 'Nosce te ipsum' it means 'know thy self' Love who you are before you can allow others to lave u

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nope thats weni lost it. im no slut either