Am i a slut?

ok the other night me, my boyfriend and his friend went out drinking together.

we got rather drunk and headed back to his friends house where we ended up drinking a bottle of gin and vodka between us, played spin the bottle and talked about stupid...

things. nothing happened, it was just funny.

at the end of the night (around 5am) we were all sleeping on the floor of his living room, sharing a double matress and blanket. I ended up in the middle of the two boys and was in my pants and a top. I was VERRRY drunk. my boyfriend was having fun and touching me and stuff and his mate was doing it also, both at the same time. My boyfriend went to sleep soon after and me and his mate were talking, when suddenly he started kissing me and then began fingering me, it was sooo wrong and my boyfriend was right there, I was very drunk. I stopped it and pulled away, but he was coming on to me again and I gave in. We did not have sex, it was a bit more kissing and touching, but afterwards I felt like he had taken advantage of me, and I felt horrible.

This was 5 days ago and I still feel really bad, they are really good friends, and my boyfriend remembers that he was touching me and his mate at the same time, and he feels bad about that, saying we were all too drunk etc. I don't know if I should tell him the truth, they are really good friends, and his mate I also regarded as a good friend, until now. He even texts me all the time, nothing sexual, but friendly stuff, like what am I up to etc.

It's my birthday on friday and my boyfriends also (we share the same bday, really sweet, lol) and his friend wants to come out with us, but I just feel it's going to be akward. I feel bad, because if I tell my boyfriend he will not like his friend, but because I ended up kissing him, he will hate me.

Please, any advice? Do you think im a slut, I really would never have done this if I were sober. I have never kissed another boy behind his back and I really like him. =(

dam I feel bad for your man if you remember what happen you werent all that drunk you new what you were doin still but I think you should tell him cause if his homeboy tells him he gunna dump you and its always better to be honest

I dont think your a slut.. but what you did was wrong!!!

I think you should tell your boyfriend, cause its wrong you can hide these stuff from your partner and what if his friend tells him first?? He will hate you more if you hide it from him!

ok, I agree with that. it was very wrong, I just don't want to ruin things. thanks

My, opinionn Yur deffiantly not a SLUT. In my defintion of slut would be having sex with other men in a certian amount of time. But, Also you shud tell your boyfriend. (in you head I bet your thinking fu** no) But yeah you should it's the right thing to do b/c if you dont you never no if his friend might tell or if he know's some how. Im just trying to tell you the best thing to do is tell your boyfriend the truth, tell him what happent, and tell him why your telling him 5/6 days later it'st he best thing to do. If you dont tell him you should feel very gui;ty of what you did that nightt...!!! well if you have any more questions feel freee to askkk. DONT BE SHY[=
-iKush

thanks, I know it's the right thing to do =)

wow sounds like sumtin that happend to me with 2 girls and one guy... lol

but the funny thing is that ALEX (the gay guy) ended up makin out with all of us and we are all lesbian... so I thawt it was funny that we did that butif he knew bout what his fran was doin then you should dump him... IF he knew... but deffinatly dont b frans with tha other guy... hope I helped! ~( ^ v ^ )~

WOW! WAIT!!! before you tell him!! screw everyone

Everyone gives the same stupid response tell him it's the right thing to do BULL! That's what you do when you're like 7!

If you truly didn't mean to do it, why tell him!? Why ruin something good? no harm no foul. if you do it again you don't deserve him. but if it was one drunk accident WHO CARES!!! I say don't tell him. why ruin something perfectly fine how it is.

-iknowbest- has the right attitude. if you stick to whats morally right, youll get walked over and will lead a sh*t life ... no harm no foul

I disagree with iknow best what if his friend tells him firt then the relationship is going to get 10times worse