Am I a bad boyfriend?

Well I've been dating a girl for about a month, she has been upset with me because I did not realize it was our 1 month aniversary. A month is not an aniversary, its medierocrity. "An aniversary happens one a year. Periods happen every month" - my best friend. Then she is upset with me because she says I do too much at school, and never have time for her. Im in Band, and choir which takes up a lot of my lunch breaks for rehearsals and before and after school time. I love what I do at school and it is my senior year and I want to do all the things I love to do. I know weekends are perfect time to hang out and talk, but her parents are strict up the butt with her. They never let her leave the house. So we hardly get to hang out at school. So am I a bad boyfriend.

By the way I must metion that im a senior and shes a sophmore

Umm no thats a joke if she gets mad at you for not remebering a stupid one month aniversary. Tell her to grow up and stop being selfish or she will never be able to actually get into a serious realtionship.. honestly girls are so stupid and ignorant sometime. Anyways your not a bad boy friend she is just a nutjob anyways hope it works out

I totally agree with overit

well. ya! kinda you are but not a hole lot.
just try 2 skip a few a few band and choir things try 2 hang out with her and plan dates during the week. like after yor done with all the mishmosh take her out on a date. text her like every hour asking what she would like 2 do. then she will feel that you care more and she'll wait 4 you 2 get done with every thing.

Well if you never have time for her, then yeah thats kinda bad. She just wants to know you remembered. WHO CARES IF ITS ONLY A MONTH! Girls are senitive about that stuff and when you remember it makes them happy. SO next time just remember and say happy __ months. Skip some of your school activities and just hang out with her. Just her, not with friends. Watch a movie and she wont be mad anymore.

hope I helped, xoxo

as mella said, surprise her by skipping a practice for band or choir every once in a while, and do something nice with her. if her parents won't allow that, just do something extra special for her on the weekend. it's not your fault if her parents are hardcore strict. since it is your senior year, and if you're not that serious about your girlfriend, remember that in most cases what you enjoy doing is more important than her. that may sound very bad, but it may be the case. but if you two are serious, she must also understand just how important your extra curricular activities are for you. so, all in all, she should understand you. it is also your job to understand her. I personally do not care about one month anniversaries, or even sixth month anniversaries - I agree that the one year deal seals it and should be celebrated. so, I think that what you're doing now is just fine. no, you're not a bad boyfriend. but if she still continues to be mad about you forgetting the one monthers, explain to her that you feel that they aren't as special as going out for a year - then, to make her feel special, tell her that you hope that you're dating her for longer than that point, then give her a big hug. tell her that you mean the world to her (and of course mean it). but, again, just tell her how you feel about anniversaries, and ask her if you can make it up to her somehow. just be a bit more considerate about the things that she wants, that way you can avoid arguements. =]
cya

well, I would say, get rid of any destractions to your future.