Why do they seem like they hurt?

evertime I get with a boy it seem like they hurt. what should I do?

It's because of the guys you choose to date. My mother has always told me that sometimes there are certain qualities in people that you really like, but that sometimes those qualities have side effects that are less desirable meaning that if you like guys who have a bad side, they normally have some personality traits that could be harmful aswell. What I suggest you do is write on a piece of paper a list of qualities that really want a guy to have and another list of qualities that you absolutely can't stand and some things that you just don't like and try to look for guys who meet your standards.
Hope I helped

Get to know the person really well first instead of rushing into a relationship right away. I'm not saying that will make it so you never get hurt again - but it will slim down the chances.

go to girls just kidding unless well I just have to say to all the guys that hurt you one day youll realize as well as they that youre too good for them and that nothing and noone should cause you sadness now dont go all tough and hard but take time to open up let them show you if their worth your time k thats all I can say you can take it a run with it

personally get to know them first. that's your best bet.

Thats just it, their boys! they don't know the fist thing about how to treat a lady.We are under constant pressure from friends to SCORE THE BASES. Thats the wrong way.Their just not adult enough for it,besides,you're young. Slow down,a good thing will happen,and you're heart an soul will let you know!Dont rush it. It's a vast world out here,trust me.

stop looking and let them come to you daaa. lol lol lol