Alive and awake.

My boyfriend is 21 and I'm 20 and we've been together for a little more than 10 months. We're both virgins but we do "play around." Anyway, he always seems slightly aroused in the morning and wants to "play" when I'm not in the mood for it, then he tries to get me in the mood for a little fun and I like playing but not in the morning. He took my shirt yesterday morning and forced it up like he was in control and at first I was suprised but then again I liked it... a lot. And why do guys seem to get aroused by you getting aroused? I'm not really asking anything but I'd like your opinion on what you think about it, and please answer the last question thank you.

Because they find that they have that effect on you which may not always be the truth...but if it helps them sleep at night, let them think that...good luck..
xx.
superfresh.

My boy and me were virgins too. He used to be some stressed out 'because he had the foolish idea he was the one who has to make all the performance.
We play a lot, even before making "real" love, that gave us confidence. Once I decided to be in control... he got crazy, he loves it! He changed his mind, he's a lot relaxed now that he knows I like to performance too !

men get aroused by anything. they're so easy, and when your aroused they just go crazy, they love it that they can turn a chick on.. and they also find it really sexy when a girl is happy with her body, so if you do have sex act like you love your body, otherwise he'll get turned off if your nervous about sex and stuff