How to stop being nervous about going to the next level?

yeah so my boyfriend and I have been talking.. and weve been talking about taking our reationship to the 'next level' and im old enough and responsible just scared,
im ready and I know hes ready im just nervous ..

That is sooo normal. IF you weren't scared, I would be worried. Have you guys messed around before like done 1st base, 2nd base etc?

Sorry, but being scared is NOT a sign that you are ready.

5 Very Good Reasons to NOT Have Sex
*You don’t feel ready.
*You’re too scared to try it.
*You just don’t want to do it.
*You feel pressured by peers or your partner.
*You feel like you are being asked to prove your feelings by having sex

You shouldnt do it if you dont want to or if you are scared to do it. He will definitely wait for you if you need more time to clear out your feelings.

If he loves you, he won't take it to the next level knowing that you are nervous about it. Just talk to him about it. If he's also a little bit nervous, then maybe it's best not to yet, and enjoy what you have right now

thanks for the information guys ve done just about everything but that.
I feel ready.. but I dont know how to explain it.. its hard. :S

Dear smileeex3,

thee dahaka is right, in my opinion (please don't take this personally, if he is a good guy ) I'd consider him either a giant prick or a huge tool. If he loves you like he says he does, he won't pressure you. (poinless profanity, sorry)

~~plainwhitets