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Age gap??

Asked by anag 3 months ago, 8 answers.

Ok so my 18 year old friend is going out with a 25 year old guy...I know it's legal and everything but I still think its gross thata guy could honestly think he could have a lot in common with an 18 year old...I am a very mature person and even I feel...

uncomfortable around him but my friend is the firthest from mature..so am I wrong for thinking this is weird??? What do you think??

Answered by diva_2010 on Aug 10, 2009, 08:17AM
324 answers

You can think what ever you want to think that is just your opinion but it shouldnt be no big deal your not dating an older guy or anything. But you have to be a little more open minded as well when it comes down to stuff like this thinking it is gross is a little childish

Answered by anag on Aug 10, 2009, 08:19AM
198 answers

it's not childish when the girl dating a 25 year old is more immature than a 15 year old

Answered by diva_2010 on Aug 10, 2009, 08:33AM
324 answers

Oh lol then he will see that... I thought you were saying its gross for him to like her

Answered by anag on Aug 10, 2009, 08:36AM
198 answers

no it's just my friend is very immature and has never treated guys right an I just don't really see why he went for her because he could find a nice woman..I suppose it has to do with the fact that she's skinny and pretty...

Answered by diva_2010 on Aug 10, 2009, 08:40AM
324 answers

Maybe. If you think that she want treat him right then I would tell him that she isnt the right girl for you. Its up to him if he will keep her or not. I understand what you are saying. I would just hate to see a nice guy get played or think she is the one when she isnt.

Answered by anag on Aug 10, 2009, 08:43AM
198 answers

yeah I know

Answered by jlw82 on Aug 10, 2009, 09:01AM
1058 answers

Not approving of your friend's boyfriend/girlfriend is a crappy situation to be in. Do you tell her how you feel and risk losing her as a friend or do you keep your mouth shut and let her do whatever it is that makes her happy, even though you don't like it? There is no easy answer, but as long as the reasons you don't approve are personal opinions and your friend isn't being used or involved in an abusive relationship, I would let it be. She'll figure it out on her own.

Answered by lianna25 on Aug 10, 2009, 09:11AM
229 answers

maybe your friend will grow up in this relationship...you cant just tell the guy that he deserves better bcoz what if he makes your friend very happy? you wouldnt want to mess it up for her...BTW its her relationship I think you should not interfere with it let her date whom she wants.