Age difference

Do you think if im 14 and I really like this boy and he like me backk a lot and there is a age difference.. [ hes 18 )..should I still go out wit himm ?

I would say go for it, but be careful that he's not using you, being 14 and vulnerable and all that stuff. Not to mention at 18 guys are in the prime of their sexuality and he may expect something from you and pressure you into doing things you may not feel ready for yet. As well, another thing to consider is at that age is that18 year olds usually only date younger girls when they can't get other 18 year olds (or older, give or take a year approx.) I would discuss things like sex and the age gap with him (esp. where friends are involved too, because social circles play a big part at dating at any young age.) Would he be okay showing you off to his friends? Or would he make you guys keep it secret, because he's ashamed of how young you are? If he really likes you and really wants to date you, he should be willing to address these issues of sex and social relationships with you, and respect you and not pressure you into doing anything you don't feel confortable doing.

Sad as this sounds, but if you don't feel comfortable talking about these things with him, or he wont discuss them with you, your relationship would probably fail and it's just not worth going through with it, that or it would be proof he is just using you, as a friends-with-benefits thing perhaps. That is fine, but only do it if there are no feelings for the guy, or that could really screw you up emotionally (in this case don't, as there are obvs feelings involved.) But if the feeling is real, and you've worked out all of the things most likely to break you guys apart and are open and honest with each other, go for it! Age should not interfere with real love.

If you guys have sex, it'll be considered rape with reason. No matter how much you like him and he likes you back, he's probably using you. You should go out with him but not do anything and tell him that you don't believe in premarital sex. His reaction will show what type of relationship he's looking for with you. Good luck (;
I'm going through the same thing but I turn 14 and he turns 18 next month.

hunni I like a 31 year old and im 16. you should go for him. if you like him. give it a shot.