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After 2 years he broke up with me

Asked by fau about 1 year ago, 5 answers.

ok, the row started over me wanting to go out for halloween and him not (like to say I havent been out since I met him) he was going oh it will be worst halloween ever, and I said please dont make me feel guilly. Long story short h said he hated me, I...

was a piece of s*it and that he couldnt stand the site of me. This isnt the first time hes done this, hes always kicking me out. He wants to get back with me, but im not sure. I do love him, and he loves me and treats me like a angel, but what do I do?

Answered by oxoloraoxo on Oct 29, 2008, 09:03PM
27 answers

ionooo the feelin you hate them but you love them

and its the love that makes you want to stay and put up wiv all the sh*t

its v hard to move on

but you have to fink where this relationship is going

and do you see a future wiv him??

lvoe is a v hard thing to move on from tho and needs courage to do so

anyway . . good luck xx

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This is me =] Answered by xxbrookenshaxx on Oct 29, 2008, 09:52PM
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I think that you need to relize that he could make a habbit of it and no one needs that.
Step away from it and I think you should just try being friends. That isnt healthy for you to be in a relationship like that. It could turn out for the worst.

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Answered by geminijd on Oct 29, 2008, 10:07PM

You say that he treats you like an 'angel'. Does calling you a b*tch and kicking you out mean that he's giving you 'angel treatment' It sounds very immature and pathetic ecspecially if its over you going to a party. You have every right to do as you want and shouldn't be made to feel guilty about it and treated that way. My opinion would be to have a good think about whether you want to go back into a relationship with someone that acts this way over something so petty

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Oct 30, 2008, 07:58AM
53906 answers

Well dont get back with him.

Answered by nicolajane on Oct 30, 2008, 10:31AM

From what you have said it looks like he treats you far from an angel!
Although there are always two sides to every story, I will respond on what you have written only.
You haven't stated your age but I am guessing you are quite young (early teens) as this is a rather juvenile situation. This isn't an insult, it is just a statement to say as you get older and experience different relationships you will see wrong from right more clearly, as most people do.
It isn't healthy to try and control your partner (or them you in this case) and will pull mistrust and resentment into the relationship.
He is being controlling from stopping you going out!
On the other hand it would do no good to completely disregard his wishes and feelings. (as he may be paranoid for a reason eg previously cheated on and just needs abit of convincing)
Its all about compromise! If you realy want to make a go of things then try and say to him something like 'if I go out till a certain time and then meet up with you later' and make a couple of rules like 'I will ring once whilst im out at an arranged time'.
If he cant hack this and isnt willing to meet you half way, he seems immature and selfish, and things will not work unless you are BOTH committed to try.
Speak to him in a mature way and say its smothering and driving a wedge between you both, try your hardest not to get riled up no matter what he says.
I f the insults continue say 'you obviously dont respect me' and leave.
If you run back to him every time he his verbally aggressive, he will never learn to stop as he will see he can treat you as he likes and you will still come back.
He needs to learn self control and if you stand your ground, you will help him do that!

Remember, sometimes is best to follow your head and not your heart..
good luck! xx

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