Advice please..

So here's the deal.. I'm fifteen. I met this guy a year ago and we became good friends and hung out a lot (just friends he was even dating someone at that time).He just turned eighteen. We were friends until about 3 months after he broke up with his...

girlfriend (not because of me) and we were still hanging out pretty often.. but then this one night we hooked up (did everything accept I didn't loose my virginity; unless you're the type that thinks giving oral sex counts as not being a virgin). And I don't hook up with a lot of guys.. I actually hadn't for like 8 months until that night. I guess I already knew that I really liked him; but I hadn't known he thought that way of me.

Sorry for blabbing..

Now my question is.. sometimes it seems like the only reason we hang out now is to hook up; I'm not sure if that's the case.. because we still talk and hang out and stuff but there's still always other things involved. I know we don't want to date.. but it's not like in the near future we would just stop talking because he's my friend. Do you guys think he's using me? The next time we hang out I'm going to talk to him about everything because I'm just like that and am not the type that would want someone to be using me. Any advice please?

thank you so much

First off, you should try to just hang and talk. It sounds like that is the reason he is around you but he’s not going to tell you that so try the just friends part and see if everything stays the same. If it does then he wasn’t just using you and if it changes his attitude then you need to find someone else to hang with.