Should I get into a relationship with her?

am in luv with a lady who has given birth 2 two kids and d lady loves me too but my friend are advising me not to go into the relationship. what do you advice me to do

for a second I thought you were some teenager...but since you are older I guess ill give my input.

I may be 18, but I've seen a lot of stuff. My brother was in a situation like this before.

Would her ex-husband [or the childrens dad] be okay with her dating someone else. I know your thinking its her choice, but you dont want to get involved in something like a jelousy war with her whatever he is. It could get you hurt.

Are you willing to take on the responsibility of becoming a parent. You might not be the baby's daddy, but if they are living with her, chances are your going to have to assume some of that responsibility.

Are you sure she is in love with you? [not doubting what you say or anything] But maybe shes just in it for money or having someone to share the responsibility with? [I dont know her or you, so please dont take offence]

If you want to give me more details about the relationship, kids, her ect. Email me and I will advise some more.

Fun mail me

if you are in love you are in love ... follow your heart

your not saying your going to marry her, spend time with her and see how you feel! it doesnt have to be seriosu to start of with just some fun =D

hope that helps
xxx

It's a tricky situation because of the children, it would be pretty sad if you got into a relationship with her, formed a bond with the children and then decided to back out, I think some thought needs to go into this department also, these children sound like the need a reliable father figure in their lives, not someone who is going to leave them.

I would advise you to go into the relationship if you have feelings for this woman, it is ok, that your friends want to help, and that they would like to share their opinion, BUT. only you know what is best for you, I would consider you going for it, even if she has 2 kids, women with kids are still human, and deserve a chance! funmail with any questions! goodluck! :]

I;d say it depends on how long you have been seeing her and how long you've been in love. 6 months would be rushing it. A year would be more telling... are you prepared to be an instant dad? How old are the children and how well do you know them?