Advance abortion thought?

Well im not quite positive im actually pregnant but I've noticed a few changes in my body such as bigger softer breast, craving for food, feeling tired, widening of my waist and stomach im not sure about missed period which is the main sign because I dont have a steady cycle I dont keep track. Im 19 and my boyfriend is 20 we want to have a baby but the time isnt right so my boyfriend thinks it would be better for us if I dont have the baby if I am pregnant, but he would support me if I wana keep the baby. We are not ready to be parents and I need to comfortably finish college. We do use condoms but there was a little accident and sperm got into me and we were both totally freaked! Now we cant stop wondering if im pregnant. I am really scared! Either choice at this time my life is ruined! I dont want to have a baby now but I also dont want to abort my first child or any of my children if is its not for some freakishly bad reason. abortions are too harsh and it will haunt me for the rest of my life! ! am going to take the test. If I am pregnant should I keep the baby or let it go?

Take the test. If it's negative, you can just sigh a big relief and get on the pill /sponges,whatevert (since condoms are obviously not working for you).

If it's positive, you have to decide what you want to do. If you view it as murder, then you're probably better off not doing it. The guilt will haunt you forever. If you don't though, and if it's less than 7 weeks, note that pain receptors have not formed and there is no neural activity either. It really is just a non sentient blob of cells at that point.

take the test, find out if you are pregnant then deal with it...
talk to the people at a place like planned parenthood... they will talk to you about keeping the baby or not... they arent biased either way and will give you the facts...
but before panicking please find out if you are pregnant...

Don't have an abortion. That's killing another human life that will never get a chance to see the world. If you don't want a kid right now, at least have it and give it up for adoption. SO many people want kids, but can't have them. Think how you could make someones life perfect with just one little miricle. Just don't have an abortion their messed up and wrong.

I would say you are pregnant
all those signs point to it
let this be a lesson...
you should never wait, the longer you wait the worse things get
its your decision what to do...
its your body, and your baby
you have a few choices
have it , you raise it
have it, your parents can help raise it
have it, let you parrents raise it almost full time (if there up to it)
have it, find a neighbour freind who can take care of it
have it, give it up for adoption
abort it, kill it

http://www.funadvice.co.uk/q/do_unborn_babies_feel_when_the_mother
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there are 4,045 + children currently waiting to be adopted in the US and only around 320 parents waiting to adopt. So the argument that adoption is better because sooo many parents are wanting to adopt is invalid. If every waiting parent adopted 12 kids, then there wouldn't be so many orphans. (or if more people adopted. Ask an abortion protester if they have adopted or plan to adopt... 9 times out of 10 it's no.)

The choice between abortion, adoption and raising a child is a major life decision whichever way you put it. It's a decision YOU have to make on your own, regardless of what anyone here says.

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Sika

The problem with adoption is that people usually want newborns, not a child that is older. I have a relative that works for an adoption agency. Yes, there are a lot of children waiting to be adopted but they are usually the ones that are older or have physical or mental handicaps.

The way you talk about an abortion tells me that you shouldn't have one. You feel to strongly about it. If raising a child right now is not in the best interests of everyone involved then adoption is a great solution. There are private attorneys and adoption agencies that can make arrangements for you and your child.

Good luck to you!

my family and I live in canada, we have been trying to have a baby for 5 years now with no luck. I am 30years old and I really want to adopt. if you ever think about the whole open adoption thing please keep me in mind
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