Welcome!


Join more than 151,000 members on FunAdvice to ask questions, share advice, photos and make new friends today.
FunAdvice RSS for this page:
Rss_feed

Abusive ex boyfriend

I died my hair...you like? Asked by bullet_baby 16 days ago, 4 answers.

ok so I was in lifetime wellness the other day and the teacher had the conceler come in and talk to us about abusive relationships...
and she said something that I can relate to
I have this ex boy friend, he always wants to know everything about me all...

the time. If he doesnt he makes me feel guilty for not trusting him. he has to message me ll day everyday and if I dont reply in the next minute, hell send, hey are you mad at me? or hell just send the same thing over again again and again. And the other day he got out of icu because he cut tooo deep because I wouldnt see him that day...now hes telling me im all he has to live for and if I dont talk to him on the phone, hes going to kill himself...I dont know what to do because I know hell do it...I dont want to be the cause of somebodies death, but hes way to pushy and always has to get his way...help?

lens flare Answered by captainassassin on Nov 04, 2009, 02:53PM
6184 answers

...then let him do it... you aren't the one killing him... HE is...

Blaming someone else for your own suicide is the ULTIMATE act of cowardice. It'll be HIS OWN fault for trying to manipulate you in such a way. He can't control you by making such childish threats. Its equivalent to a spoiled little brat holding his breath until mommy gives him what he wants. Its unfair to you.

1) HE needs counseling, plain and simple. Tell his family, then bow out.
2) YOU need raise your standards, and stop dating such unstable idiots.

1 person thought this was helpful
moi Answered by j_a_s on Nov 04, 2009, 07:02PM
141 answers

uh negative assasin
that would be retarted to let him kill himself... I highly doubt hell do it anyway...
but, I think you should tell his parents or somethin about what he said... thell take it from there

lens flare Answered by captainassassin on Nov 05, 2009, 08:33AM
6184 answers

*** I highly doubt hell do it anyway... ***

...that's the point...

Answered by anonymous115 on Nov 05, 2009, 11:09AM
13 answers

I would say tell an adult, be it your parents or a teacher at school, and let someone else deal with his crazy. You are not responsible for his actions and it doesn't matter whether or not he'll ACTUALLY kill himself, you shouldn't have to worry about it.

Answer this Question: "abusive ex boyfriend"

Your Answer: HTML is not allowed.


Our members said the answers on this page also answer the following questions:


Why i love my abusive exboyfriend

Love & Relationships Photos

My sisters ex is the one in the red and my boyfriend is in whitemy boyfriend derek!! he hates pictures:) lolmy ex boyfriend

Share this question

Copy and paste this code:
It will display on your blog or site like this:
Abusive ex boyfriend