Abstinence ring

I have a total problem. Please someone help me. . I recently gave up my virginity to someone I thought I loved. I've had sex with two different boys. I feel dirty, and that I have betrayed God. I want to wear an abstinence ring to make a statement that I...

want to be abstinent from now until I'm married, but I'm scared God will not forgive my sins, and abstinence rings are meant to be worn by virgins.. What should I do?

I honestly feel that yu should do it...and GOD 4gives everyone for their sins if yu are saved...I say gooo for it..

God forgives everybody for their sins...however, a word of advice...
you may just want to stay abstinent until you're a little older, and find somebody that you love and plan to spend forever with...my personal opinion...don't marry it until you've taken it for a test drive...you have to have sex with this person for the rest of your life.

you can wear it its an absinence ring not a virginity ring. you are just saying you will abtain from having sex. so go ahead if thats what you want then go for it. suppossedly god forgives everyone as long as you are truley sorry

Amandagalik is right. It is an ABSTINENCE ring. Go ahead and make that pledge, and do your best to keep it, but also realize that to protect your health you need to learn about pregnancy prevention. Knowledge of prevention is NOT a license to fornicate. Never think that it is. It is just a way to protect yourself in the event of weakness.
You made a mistake once, thinking that you had found the one true person, and he was false. So now pledge abstinence, but do it while protected with knowledge.

Good Luck!!

God doesn't care if you have sex. Don't sweat it.

Stop feeling guilty for doing something that's normal, natural, consensual, and harms no-one. As long as you want to do it, they want to do it, and you're safe, I fail to see the problem.

1) Those rings are pointless trinkets, that have NO religious significance AT ALL.

2) God can forgive rape, murder, etc. WHY would you think he wouldn't forgive you?

3) The Bible does NOT forbid premarital sex, nor is it ever mentioned.

*captainassassin* The bible does have a bunch of things about premarital sex in the context of the holiness of marriage and holding everything back until that marriage of body and spirit. If you give your body and spirit to people who you aren't going to be one with, it's less to offer the one you truly love.

To the point at hand, God always forgives, whether you're saved or not, if you're truly sorry about your mistake and genuinely want to learn from it, he will ALWAYS forgive you. Even though the ring is just a trinket, it's a good reminder of what you want to accomplish. Sorta like tying a string around your finger so you don't forget. Sure it's just a string but, hey, you still remembered why you tied it in the first place!

***The bible does have a bunch of things about premarital sex in the context of the holiness of marriage and holding everything back until that marriage of body and spirit***

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