Should I go back out with my ex?

I have feelings for my ex boyfriend and he has feelings for me. I am really confused and I need some really good advice. Should I go back out with him or should I tell him? Even though we have feelings for each other it's over. We need to get over this. I have tried to talk to him numerous times but, he is always with his friends and his friends have made fun of him for still liking me. And a couple of days ago one of his friends got a note out of my ex-boyfriend's locker (it was mine. He has kept all of the notes that I had given to him). Well he punched the kid in the face, the stomach and the arm. I mean he beat this kid up just for trying to read one of the notes that he still had. I think that was sweet and romantic of him to do that. So should I go back out with him or tell that I will think about it or tell him it is over forever? I need help PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!

Ok even tho that seems like a sweet thing for him to do as he is protective of you and his relationship, he shouldnt have done that to the kid. But whats done is done. Now you need to work out whether or not you actually have feelings for him and want to be with him, becos if you do want to then wats holding you back? it all depends on why you broke up in the 1st place as an ex is an ex for a reason. Sometimes it works the 2nd time around, and sometimes its even worse then the 1st time but its all up to you. If you think you have both grown and matured and can make it work this time around then take a chance, if not then leave it alone.

Well I think that if you guys have true feelings for eachother and you're sure that you want to get back together than you should give it a try. And if it doesn't work then maybe it wasn't meant to be. Maybe just try being friends if it doesn't work.

I was in the same situation a few weeks ago... only it was debating whether to date him for the third time. He broke it off with me the first two times, but I still never hated him for it. He was the only one I could actually feel a real connection with - he was everything I wanted. His friends gave him a hard time for liking me yet again and mine did too. That didn't matter to us. They can't control our lives. A saying of mine: What's life without forgiveness?? I kept this in mind and we're happily together.

Don't let your friends make your decisions for you. They don't know what you like as much as you do. Forgiving people is essential in life. If you both have feelings for eachother, go for it! Especially if he's the one you've felt something "special" with. Just drop the whole "punching the kid for the note" thing. It's nothing to get too worked up about. There's also no rule stating you NEED to get over this whole thing. He can't be with his friends ALL the time. Good luck and call him...

if you have feelings 4 him then tell him and get back together with him