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A messed up situation.

Out by the lake! Asked by djwager about 1 year ago, 4 answers.

Me and my best friend ever are like brothers we grew up together and I was the first person he met when he moved from england when he was 8, that was 12 years ago... So my situation is, I found out that he slept with my ex a week after we broke up, then...

he stop all contact with her. (So he pretty much used her on her emotions). After this he lied to my face constantly about it until I finally agree'd that nothing happened, Now that I positively know I am furious and upset and I want to hit him with a baseball bat (no joking, im serious when I say things like this)... Any advice or Ideas I'm going crazy about it all... sad

haha boredom Answered by punk_rocker_chick14 on Jun 12, 2008, 12:22AM
6 answers

your nto goign crazy
but you do need to contrall your emotions what you really need to do is talk with your friend tell him what he did wasnt cool at all and that you know he could have done better then to do that to a girl. and that you thought you knew who he was.
then jsut leave him be give him time to come to term for what he did. then go speak to your ex about it. you want to let her know you know what your friend did was soo uncool.

Answered by bubux007 on Jun 12, 2008, 08:20AM
1959 answers

Do not be upset. You broke up with your g/f, so she was 100% free. Maybe she seduced your best friend because she had a nostalgia for you. Best friend frequently replace the b/f for many girls. Many girls chose the best friend of her fiance' when he went to the army. Be friendly with him and tell that finally both of you knew she. In extreme situation best male friends can even share one of them's love. Your friendship should be more stable than this g/f-b/f relationship was.

at friends Answered by spitek on Jun 12, 2008, 08:27AM
28 answers

damn that sucks just stay a way from him utill you cool down then talk to them and try to get the story... good luck

Me Answered by dsaccomando on Jun 12, 2008, 06:08PM
16 answers

Here's the thing, if you broke up with her, He can sleep with her one week after the break up. If she broke up with you, he has to wait 6 weeks. You are allowed to be pissed cause that was a dick move on his part to take advantage of some girl, and if she is still your friend, you can say something to him. But friends are friends. And blood runs deeper between guy friends then it does with an Ex girlfriends. So tell him he's f*cked up over a beer and a round of golf, leave it on the course.
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