How to stop regretting this quick kiss?

Asked by peepers_690 over 2 years ago, 2 answers.

3 years ago I shared a quick kiss with a mutual friend of my husbands and I when we were all drinking..I hardly remember everything..but I know that it was a quick kiss and we never spoke of it again..Well I told my husband because it has eaten at me...

everyday..He of course is very angry with me..But we are going to try to work through this, we have 3 kids and have been married for 6 years..I love him sooo much..any advice on how to get through this...I made the biggest mistake and I regret it everyday..Please Help!!

Answered by bubux007 on Dec 12, 2007, 10:29AM
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You did not make any mistake, your husband is narrow-minded. This short kiss was just nothing. That man was your friend too, and between friends this may happen. Not each day, of course, but few times in a life. If your husband has never kissed during the common years it is not a big achievement at all. I do not know how to solve the problem, but stop to feel that you made something horrible mistake. That is also terrible you canot tell this to your husband. If my wife would tell me this story I would answer that I hope it was a good taste kiss.

Sue90 Answered by sue90 on Dec 12, 2007, 04:10PM
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Dear peepers_690,
This falls under that catagory...what I shouldn't have done but what I will never speak about. If you feel so guilty of a quick kiss then you must be married to someone who has tight rains on you and may be quick to express his anger and perhaps even controlling. There shouldn't be so much guilt...I would suggest you go see a counsellor. You have made this a much bigger problem then it had to be and your husband has over reacted. You say of course he was mad...no, not of course...it was 3 years ago, a quick kiss. There should have been no anger over this issue. Does he not allow you to hug close male friends? Do you not show affection such as quick kissing with others male or female? Unless there was something about this particular guy you aren't saying?
Sue...good luck

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