A guy 3 years younger has a crush on me!

I#039;m 20 years old and this guy that I#039;ve known since we were little kids has had a crush on me for the last 2 years. He#039;s 17 and we go to the same church and both went to the same school. We used to be really good friends until I realized...

he liked me. Then I kinda ignored him. He asked me if I was interested in him when I was a senior in high school and I told him he is too young and maybe he should try again in a couple years. Now that its been a quot;couple yearsquot; we started talking again. I#039;ve had several girls from his school come up to me and tell me that its not right that I#039;ve quot;stolenquot; their smart, quarterback, and class president. But I#039;m not keeping him from dating. Now I#039;m afraid that I#039;m starting to #039;like#039; him. I#039;ve only dated guys that were older than me.

What should I do? I don#039;t want our relationship or church to get #039;weird#039; and don#039;t know if I should talk to him about it. Would it be wrong if we dated?

Absolutely Not!!!!!!!! It is not wrong if you like someone 3 years younger and it is not wrong if he likes you. I think you should give it a try and date him. Who knows maybe you#039;ll be happy-happier than you#039;ve ever been with a guy that was older. Now if he acts immature it will be too hard but if he acts like an adult why shouldn#039;t he be treated like an adult. He has feelings like any other male with hormones and everything. If girls come up to you tell them it#039;s not wrong to like him and im sorry but I can#039;t help if he likes me. Let everyone else know it#039;s natural too. Besides why should you care about what everyone else thinks? I wouldn#039;t let it bother me this bad. Good Luck, God Bless and I hope I was of some help-notinlove66

i totally agree with the previous person. age is only a number. he could be mature for his age, but you wont know unless you give him a try. if it is meant to be then it will work out. hope that helps

well you are a good person but my step sister always told me age isn't nothing but a number i know you are gonna think its weird to go out with a guy thats younger than you but when you spend time with him you will probley have the time of your life and you r gonna forget all about this age so its up t you if you want him to be with you so make it happen

Good Luck!!!