3 month break up rule

just curious if anyone else sticks to the 3 month break up rule, im in my early 20's and I've never dated a girl longer than 3 months. I alway's break up with em. its usually because they start to fall in love(I have that effect on women), So I break up before we can get to attached to one another. anyone else do this, and what are your thoughts. im not a player, but once I notice the girl has taken a real liking to me I break up with em even if I like em. pretty sure I allready went through the 3 great ones in my life.

like loulou11 said...I've never heard of that be4...u probably are afraid 2 get 2 attached 2 someone and start 2 luv them...because your afraid that you will be hurt if you do luv them and they're the ones that broke up w/u...I've heard of that be4...but not that 3 month break up rule...sometimes you have 2 take a risk and keep going in the relationship...find someone that is a lot alike u...keep it going 4 at least 4-5months...it will let you get the feeling of a long term relationship...some people continue to go out w/ someone 4...I don't know at least 2 years...my grandparents were going out 4...6 years...I think...but ya take a risk...just keep it going!
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I don't understand why you do this. is there a reason? I'm sure a lot of girls have gotten hurt by this. are you afraid to get close to someone and love them? I've never heard of anyone that does this before.

I think I do it to spare there emotions, of course they are hurt. but its better to break up with em at 3 months than 1 year. I fell in love wih one girl who never loved me back, and I said never again. And I've had some really good girls, I seriously think I killed that emotion because of that one girl. because even with the good girls, it will hit 3 months, I won't ffel anything besides sexual attraction. so I break up with em to spare there feelings later on

You have that effect on women> Thats a very egotistical thing to say! Stop having sex if you dont have anything more to offer. At least then they wont get emotionally attached to you! I think you are a selfish,heartless coward for doing what you do. You cant let what one girl did make you disrespect the rest of the female gender. If your not ready, your not ready, but then start stepping up to the plate, act like a real man, and stop taking advantage of girls, which is basically what you are doing. No matter how you look at it, I consider you a player!

ouch angel, I show them what a real guy is though, they learn something. I treat my women like gold, thats why they alway's like me so much. so after we break up they at least know what its like to have a good guy instead of a douchbag. im a douchbag but at least I treat my women very well.

Truth hurts, huh? So treating them nice justifies breaking their hearts? I suggest letting the girl in on your 3 mos. breakup rule before dating her. Then you'll see what kind of effect you have on them! How do you think girls are suppose to trust after being with someone like you? Just because you got your heart broken by someone you loved, doesnt mean you have to do that to all the girls you date.
Everyone at some point in their life will suffer a broken heart...it should have made you stronger, not seek out revenge on innocent victims! If you didnt like having your heart broken, then I suggest having empathy for what you are putting your flings through!

I've never heard of the 3 month break up rule. I have heard of a commitment- phobic though.