2nd cance

I have been in love with my best friend for a little over a year now, over the past few months she has told me she has feelings for me also, She says she loves me. But yesterday I found out she had sex with herr ex- boyfriend two days ago, After...

confronting her with this ahe attmitted to it and said she realy did love me but she still loved him too. I told her that she couldnt have both of us and she would have to decide who she realy wanted in her life, she said she needed the weekend to talk about it and she would tell me her decision monday, should I have given her a second chance at all? I think she will probley choose him but what if she does choose me? I love her but I will always be afraid she would do something like this again, so what do you think?

If she said she loved you, and slept with her ex because she ''still loves him'' is that really worth going after?

I know its hard to hear but thats gonna lead straight into heart ache. I dunno about you, but I'd like to have a girlfriend that I could trust no matter what.

Even though it may hurt, try and not let it affect you...its hard to stop loving somebody, believe me, I know.