Do I have to watch p*rn to understand sex?

okay so I am so confused about having sex.
I mean.. do I HAVE to watch p*rn to understand it?!?
eww I mean I really do not want to watch p*rn it's really not my cup of tea. =]
will I just understand it immediently once we start? will I just kinda go along with it?! or will I be all confused and be awful at having sex.
also, the boy I am planning on having sex with, isn't actually my boyfriend. I just say that sometimes. no. we are just friends. best friends. and yeah he touches me and stuff, and constantly say we love eachother. and I know I had my first kiss with him. but should we really have sex?
thanks!
-Cypher

ALright saw3rules> I have seriously taken enough of you trashing talking me! You have funmailed me swearing up and down about my advice, and name calling. I've had to report you as abusive, not only once, but twice! (it should have been more)

You just cant handle the TRUTH, thats your problem! Im not here to tell anyone what they want to hear. I give MY opinion (just like everyone else), and If you dont like it, then find another site who will put up with your childish behavior, and down right rude comments! Now I can understand why you cant keep a girlfriend. You said it in one of your posts, 'no the first 2 dumped me cause im annoying as hell and at my school everyone is insecure'! I would have to totally agree with them about you being annoying! (among other things)

You are a very confused girl! Never have sex with friends! Thats not what theyre for! If you fool around, why arent you both committed to one another?

Friends with benefits isnt the way to go either. Sex does complicate things. If you get on better as friends, you should stay that way.

If you are someone who does not care for feelings at ALL (which is quite hard), the “friends with benefits” may work.
'casual sex with friends is the doughnut of romance. You may think it’s tasty now, but you’ll pay for it later'.

You won't be good at it on the first try. Your first time will ALWAYS be awkward...

I'm confused. I thought you wanted to have sex with your boyfriend. You're using this friend for practice maybe? Bad idea.

angel fire is stupid, if you have true feelings for him and you want to risk it then I say you should and no you dont have to watch p*rn to understand sex but it does help, but there are many sex ed sites that will help you.

P*rn is good to understand some main technical points of making love, but making love is much better, romantic, and nice. In the p*rn there is no soul, in the love there is. So I advice you to see some p*rns, but you have to know that your case will be quite different from that. Only the anatomical detales will be the same, the atmosphere will be much better. If you like this boy and you calculate that maybe he will be your first boy in the bed that is absolute okay. Good luck for your plans.

Okay, what I think Angelfire is trying to say is that if she truly does care for this friend, then it might work out. If she isn't just using him. But if she doesn't care about him that way, then she should'nt use him like that. I mean, how would you feel if someone just used you because they wanted sex? And only sex from you? And think about it. Think about how much that would hurt and possibly ruin their relationship. Angelfire is just trying to help. Don't call her stupid. I mean, that is just YOUR opinion and maybe some other people's. But everyone can have their own thoughts and Angelfire was just telling hers.

Sex may be a little awkward to start with, It does come more naturally after that, but in my experience this ease and comfortability comes from talking with your partner; discussing what you liked, didnt like and how you felt . You also will need to learn about and communicate about, what turns you on.
You can pick up some basic stuff about what goes where and how, at askmen.com.
But the way sex will feel, even physically,depends on your emotional relationship with your partner.
I hate to keep saying this but its true- sex with the one you love is uncomparable with sex with someone you just like or fancy- its just not the same thing.
A lot of people can't enjoy sex or have orgasms if they dont completely trust their parner with their innermost feelings.
I love sex, and quite kinky sex too! but I can't relate to po*nography personally, I would hate it if my guy tried to behave like that with me I would feel alienated, degraded and hurt. - not that he would lol!
So I think its best not to watch po*n untill you have learnt about real sex and intimacy- so that you dont pick up bad attitudes towards your body and towards sex.
Sex with someone you aren't in love with often doesnt feel at all nice, it can leave you feeling disgusted and ashamed, wondering why you did it, and wishing you hadn't done it.

I disagree with 'your first time will always be awkward.' my first time was great. but I think that was because for a long time, me and my girlfriend did 'everything but' sex all the way up until the actual sex. I would recommend that.

and p*rn isn't that gross, but you don't need to watch it to learn how to have sex. you'll figure it out on yer own.

though I would recommend watching it for girls who want to learn how to suck d*ck lol