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Is it too early to lose my virginity?

Asked by fau 8 months ago, 11 answers.
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im 15 and my boyfriend and I have been going out know 4 about 3 years and he has been rubbing up against me and kissing me more than usual and I dont know if I should brake up with him because I dont want to go this far yet but I dont know if thats what he wants

PLEASE HELP!!

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Answered by mzpink on Dec 27, 2007, 08:17PM
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He may just be starting to feel that you are loosing interest in him...Its not that he wants to go farther but hes trying to get your attenchion. If he wanted you to loose your verginity he would of talked to you about it. You start kissing him more and he'll let off. Just dont break up with him. If you have any more questions just message me or comment k?

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Answered by shetheplague on Dec 27, 2007, 08:22PM
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If you feel it is right to have sex with him, then go for it and be safe with it.
ware protection...
make sure you have no doubts in your mind.
if you feel it is right, and feel comfortable doing it then you're never too young...

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Answered by glamorousx3 on Dec 27, 2007, 08:31PM
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well you dont have to break up with him!!
just tell him that youre not ready!!
if he really loves you he will understand!!

Answered by funadvice on Dec 27, 2007, 08:33PM
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Agreed...

Answered by funadvice on Dec 27, 2007, 10:02PM
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wow dont you think thats REALLY early

Answered by princessweird on Dec 27, 2007, 11:20PM
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Personally, I believe that is WAY too early! I think you should wait till marriage. And if you don't want to do anything, then don't. You go girl! A man should treat us girls like princesses, not property.

'Love can't wait to give, but lust can't wait to get'

17, dating for 2 years, and waiting till my wedding night

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Answered by fau on Dec 28, 2007, 01:51AM
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I totally agree with princessweird. I'm almost 15 and I don NOT plan on losing my virginity until my wedding night. Just because he is your boyfriend, doesn't mean you have to meet his every need!! If he wants sex, then too bad!! If you don't want to, you don't have to!! But if he really insists that you have sex with him, then dump him... It may hurt, but it will be better than losing the most precious thing you can have. Your virginity is like a gift you should really only give to your spouse. But sadly, most spouses are deprived of that gift. So just save yourself for your wedding night, please. Hope I helped, and good luck on making the right choice.

Answered by tigrah12 on Dec 29, 2007, 04:53PM
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tell him that you aren't ready and he needs to back off.

Answered by fau on Dec 29, 2007, 06:36PM
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well he didn't say that he wanted to have sex, so don't break up with him over what might be nothing.
if what he's doing is making you that uncomfortable, just talk to him.
and if you want to wait, he should understand.