What if i am married but want to experiment?

Ok, here is a question that yet has been a struggle for me. Like the title said, I have been faithful to my wife since we got married 17 years, HAVE BEEN TEMPTED MANY TIMES and I said NO but in side I really wanted. It has been bothering me that I DO...

WANT TO EXPERIMENT, but I really do have a wonderful wife, and a very active sex life with her. We even have a Rule, every time we have sex, We both have to have a climax/orgasm no matter what or what needs to me done or the length of time. This is a difficult thing, because I do not have a reason to be unfaithful.. BUT I WANT TO. what do I do?

Don't jepardize your relationship over a one nite stand. It is not worth it. Let the love one that God has given you be enough. Many men have done this and are regretting it to this day. Stand strong and don't give in to that . For you are trully blessed to have a wife as such.

This is normal, you have been with the same women for so long now that your curiousity of experimenting with other women is getting the better of you. Your just letting your mind wonder just a little to much, since you dont have any real problems, thank god, in your marriage or sex life its just a matter of weighing it up, would you rather continue have a loving and commited relationship with your wife, or do you want to be single and run around with different women? becos you know cheating is not the answer here, unless you know your wife may be into the possibilty of experimenting also, maybe having a threesome or an open marriage, but this is all very dangerous territory and your wife may get the wrong idea of what you need.

Than you Terrebce333 and locoluna, you are both good Advisors. I need the hand of the above so I do not fall into this, IT IS SO HARD. AND I TRULY LOVE MY WIFE.

I hope you are still doing okay. You definitely don't want to jeopardize your family just to be with another woman. Trust your judgement 17 years ago when you chose your wife to be your one and only. Maybe what you are needing is just to spice things up a little bit. Make sure you take your wife on dates, and try to go on a trip together just you and her..and you can always have your fantasies, just don't act on them.