17 and engaged

is 17 to young to eganged? we are not planning on getting married till we are done with our careers in collge and fullfill our dreams uk but what do think?plase no hard cooments?

You are very welcome and I really think it is smart and great that you are doing things in that order. Good luck, and I mean that.

It's your life and it's up to you - although honestly, I dont see the point in being engaged if you aren't about to start planning a wedding in the near future. Engagements are supposed to be the time between him asking, you planning a wedding, and the wedding. You are talking about waiting - 3-5 years if not more to get married. What's the point in being engaged that soon?

no hard comments will come from me. im 17 too and not quite engaged but my boyfriend and I promise that we will get married to eachother after or maybe during college. I always think if im to young to say im in love cause my parents dont fully understand how much I love this kid. but I know. they still think its just a high school crush and it drives me crazy! so no. 17 is not to young to decide to get married. engaged means a promise to commit and be in love forever.. and if thats what you want then do it!

I was engaged at 18 and married at 21. I think it is great that you are both making a commitment to eachother but still keep your priorties in check. Yes Go to collage and build your career and if you are both still together then plan that wedding.
This part in your life will be a big test of survial for the both of you. So I think getting engaged and getting married in the future is great. I don't think getting married right away is a good idea, because neither one of you may know where collage life or career life may take you.
Good luck and I hope all the cards are played just how you want them.

awe thats such a good advcie harley thanks you so much!@

I was engaged at 15..and I broke it off at 17...it's not a big deal since it's not marriage and you can break it off..but yea, there has to be a strong and a large amount of trust to keep it going...because being engaged and just being boyfriend girlfriend is different...
but it's your choice so I wish you luck.