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16 year old wants a baby..

the boyfriend and i Asked by maegen_hollywood about 1 year ago, 6 answers.

ok so my boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now, I'm sixteen and he's seventeen, and this might sound a little too forward, but I want to have a baby, I know I'm young, but I reallly want this,
I'm not sure what to do, so please say...

something, kthanksbye.

The Fiance and Me at a Luau Answered by mandyloo on Oct 21, 2008, 04:44PM
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Your only 16. Wait. There is no point in rushing into having a baby, especially when you are so young. Seriously think about what your saying. What you want, and what you need are two different things. It's normal to want it, but your supposed to be mature and smart enough to know that you shouldn't have one right now. Think about this:

Are you seriously finacially ready and stable to have this baby? Have you thought about what will happen if he leaves you? Do you have health insurance? Are you capable of buying a crib, formula, diapers, medicine, bath stuff, clothes, lotion, wipes, bassinets, blankets, towels, washcloths, baby tubs, car seats, strollers, toys, and everything else you need for the baby? Do you have a reliable place to live (not your parents house or his)? Have you been to school and accomplished what you want to already? Are you ready to give up your entire social life and most of your friends (I promise they all leave when you have a kid)? Are you ready for the emotional toll that having a newborn will take on you? Can you afford Daycare every week? Are you ready to gain weight, have strechmarks, hemmroids, and to give your body up for another human being? Are you ready to be up all night with a child, and then having to get your own self up for high school in the morning? What happens if you can't handle it and you drop out, dont you want to finish school?
I seriously think you need to think about this more, having a baby is something that is very serious that should not be played around with because you simply WANT one.

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IM A SOUL MANN!!! Answered by alexislikesex on Oct 21, 2008, 05:06PM
28 answers

its legal and you want it so why the f*ck not?

(dont actually take advise from this thing, you may end up ruining your life...)

Answered by leptitchat on Oct 21, 2008, 06:11PM
7 answers

hey take it from me I got mine at 15 (last year) and yes it can ruin you but it didnt ruin m im still going to school but im a year back because now my baby can go to daycare

smiles and laughs Answered by cmjcarcam on Oct 21, 2008, 06:47PM
819 answers

well if you think you are ready for the respnisibilty than go rite ahead
but just so you know
that a baby is not a joke
you have to tak care of it
and who know where you and your boyfriend will be in 9 months you guys could stop talking to each other and then your going to have to raise the baby on your own
soo good luck but I wouldn't want to do it

Answered by rrjjhh on Oct 21, 2008, 07:16PM
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dude your 16 wait if you think you want this baby so bad then you must think you can love it that much too. and if you loved it you would wait till you could give it a good life

eyezz Answered by rebelliousjuliet1991 on Oct 22, 2008, 07:23AM
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OMG think about what you're saying! I'm 17, and a freshman in college. If I had a baby, I wouldn't be able to do my work... Wait for the right time. Talk to your parents about this. And think about the responsibility that comes with taking care of a baby.

Also, think about WHY YOU WANT THIS???

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