16 and completely innocent.

Ok so Im 16 and I have done nothing with a guy. Like a week ago I went to the movies and a guy put his arm around my shoulder, thats a first for me even. I havn't had my first kiss yet. It's not like I'm disapointed in myself. Im quite proud but yet Im...

itching to get a boyfriend, someone to cuddle with, to be around with (doesn't help that my 2 best friends are dating). A lil off topic: ok so these two guys lets call them fred and george. Fred, I've met him once (we were both apart of eachothers school play and met at a compitition) and that was a year and 1/2 ago and we kept in contact, he only lives 1/2 hour from me this is the guy I went to the movies with. Now George, I grew up with him up until grade 5, then I ran into him like a month or two ago and I hadn't talked or seen him in nearly 6 years (were both going into grade 11). Both these guys are great and I have I think I like him feeling. I think both want to be with me (George said hes had fantasies of sleeping with me :O). The thing with both of them is that they have sex on their mind all the time, and a lot of the time they vocalize it (Fred only on msn cause I don't talk to him on the phone and only seen him once in the last year and 1/2). I think either would be repectful of my innocence (they know I've never done anything) but yet be a lil encouraging (not that I don't want to expirence it ;P) Im not afraid to say no, and I sure won't have sex with either of them. I want to know if I should go with one of them or none. and who? And anyother advice you could give me...sorry about the length... Thanks

I just feel like saying that I'm 16 and I havn't had my first kiss either. Yes I've had boyfriends, cuddled, and currently have a boyfriend now. I want my first kiss to be speical. My boyfriend and I decided that when he comes back from school to vistit me next we will though. So don't freight about things they happen when they happen.
Pick the guy who you like better! The one who makes you laugh and makes you feel good about yourself and doesn't have a history of cheating! That's an important thing. Also if you don't want to have sex say NO!

well..you at least seem to be using your head in this...let's see...

well at 16 I hadn't had my first kiss either and I wasn't particulary worried. you kinda remind me of myself at your age (I'm 24 now)

Guys, when they hit about 15 or so start thinking with their other head...now, I'm not saying all guys are sex crazed little monsters who are horny 24/7...cause they're not...they really do have other stuff going on up there...but sex becomes this very interesting concept to them and they do vocalize it...

Now, this is speaking from babysitting a lot of younger cousins who are males, but you kinda get the impression, many times, that they just want sex. It's not always the case...however, its a good thing to keep in the back of your mind.

Fred and George seem like decent guys, albeit out spoken on their sexual thoughts, and its normal. I would say if you do like one of them, ask him out on a date...and see what happens. if you feel they will respect you when tell them 'I'm not ready for sex yet. then that's a good thing...

If you're looking for a cuddle buddy or something, then tell them you want to take things slowly..there's nothing wrong with being up front and honest with them. Good luck!

In my opinion... its awwweeesssooommmeee you're an innocent girl. It would be great if all girls were like you lol. Anyway, out of the options you gave, try both. Give them a position where sex is possible, but you're not going to do it. Whoever respects you towards your decision I would say he's the choice. Other than that, its all about personality, don't go for looks because that can hurt you in the end. Choose the nicer,funnier,more caring, romantic, whatever aspect you really like in a guy you know. An option I would reccoment is which guy you feel safer with and comfortable with being yourself. P E A C E!

In my opinion... its awwweeesssooommmeee you're an innocent girl. It would be great if all girls were like you lol. Anyway, out of the options you gave, try both. Give them a position where sex is possible, but you're not going to do it. Whoever respects you towards your decision I would say he's the choice. Other than that, its all about personality, don't go for looks because that can hurt you in the end. Choose the nicer,funnier,more caring, romantic, whatever aspect you really like in a guy you know. An option I would reccoment is which guy you feel safer with and comfortable with being yourself. P E A C E!

Hey..
I think that it's great that you've been holding on to this innocence thing we all seem to just give away.
I know I have, and sometimes I think it wasn't the greatest idea, but you can't change the past.
Anyway, the two guys seem nice, and because you're not afraid to say no and let them no that you aren't ready for something, being with one of them could be a good thing.
It will definitely be a great experience whether you do anything or not because it's nice just to have someone to be with.
So I say go for it and have fun.

If you have anymore questions.. fun mail me..
bye =]

-Jen