14 and pregnant

hi,am 14 and am scared to death I might be pregnet I havent taken I test yet but I've had some prenet signs,my boyfriend and I arent together at the momment.I kinda want to be pregent but then it will kill my mom and his parents.it was a funn momment we had a condom but it came off.what do I doo?I need help.

You need to take a test - thats pretty much all you can do right now.

okay your 14 grow up! you do not want a kid.
like I understand what you mean like I was your age and thinking I wanted one, but get real don't even think like that.
you definatly need to get a test, im 15 years old and im pregnant and since I found out all I think is I should have listened to my mom.
take a test ASAP and if your not pregnant, make sure you go to the doctor and get on some birth control so you dont run into this kinda situation again.
if you gots any more questions funmail me!;

I know im right with ya GIRLY.

im 14 me and my boyfriend had sexx for the first time with no protection I been having some symptoms like

1. two missed periods
2. breast kinda sore
3. breast got biger
4. craveing food like chocolate, strawberries, jello, pickles, pop, coffe, and water
5.nausea but not all the time
6.headaches
7kinda cramping
8. tierdness
9. feel like im going to through up but I dont I just gag
10. GOOD LUCK

and theres nothing wrong with keeping your baby at a young age I mean you get to dres s it up feed it play with it carry it around I don't know IF I AM IM KEEPING MINE.

one thing PARENTS lol.

~*Miranda*~

"and theres nothing wrong with keeping your baby at a young age I mean you get to dres s it up feed it play with it carry it around I don't know IF I AM IM KEEPING MINE."

Ok shmanders its obviously have no clue what keeping a baby means. Keeping a baby means that you will have to spend most of your time taking care of it. You will no longer be able to have fun and see your friends as much because babies are a lot of work . Also what are you going to do about school?you can't support a baby because 1. you can't drive 2. How are you going to come up with the money? Do you have a good job to support a baby?
Also I feel sorry if your thinking about making your poor parents take care of this baby when it isn't even theirs.

If your young as 14 I would either take an abortion or give the baby up to someone that you know will be responsible. If your thinking about keeping just because it sounds exciting and fun, well your in for a rude awakining.

Simple---> Take a test!
Then tell him and figure out what you guys are going to do if you are. Then tell your parents. They might be mad, but they can help you out and be your biggest support in the end.
Good luck!
♥♥

I can get the money from my parents and they can run me places and my mom and dad don't have to take care of it because im getting home schooled so I don't have to worry about school they can help if they want and I know they will. but im just saying and I use to work at a restraint and and I use to babysit sooo yeah.

~*Miranda*~

You proved my point... Your making your parents pour in they're OWN money just so you can have this baby. Thats good for you but thats not fair for them. They aren't responsible for this child, YOU are. So having other people pay and do everything for your baby is very selfish.

for this "shmanders" girl,
okay im 15 and im pregnant, and all I think is I should have listened to my mother.
she had my brother at 14, after a couple months of taking care of him, she could not do it anymore, but she loved this kid sooo much that she couldnt adopt him out of the family, so my grandma adopted him as her son. but it's really her grandson. My mom partially could not do this because of my brothers father, like they wer'nt together. And so my grandma had to do a lot because of this mistake my mom made.
like it's not a mistake now because I love my brother and everyone loves him but she was sooo young and now im in the same situation, and my brother was in the situation to because he has a 2 year old daughter he had at 16. and he isnt with the mother of his baby anymore, they acutally hate eachother. so you should really think of what could happen in the future.

because honestly now you think "oh I have a boyfriend, we will be together forever and everything is going to be GREAT".

REALITY CHECK! your 14, like how long have you been dating for a couple months?
you guys will not be together forever, and if you do choose to have this baby you realize your underage to even have sex! like they will try and try again to take this baby from you.

like im 15, and you have to be 16 to have sex where I live, but by the time I have this baby I will be 16, they may try to take him away but I can fight for him because I will be 16, like I can live on my own if I want [because im from canada]. And I have a loving boyfriend who wants this baby. but one of the things that scares me to death is I no me and my boyfriend wont last "forever" because I can feel us drifting apart already and im soo young and I dont want to be soo commited to one person and soon you will probably feel the same way. And if you are pregnant, you might regret your decision too keep it.

but girly if you want to ask me about ANYTHING, im here.
funmail me, I'd be glad to talk =]

ohh my god. Im not the one to judge young parents trust me Im not but wow @ this girls reply. I get to dreess her up and play dolly and OMFLIPPPING GOD.

girl wow.