13 and pregnant

omfg
I was exsperamenting
and now my best mate is pregnant and im 13!!! my life is over and she want to keep the baby!!!
what do I do !!!

That's what happens when you experiment irresponsibly, keeping the baby at 13-years-old really doesn't sound like a good idea unless you want your baby to have a crappy life. I really think you should consider adoption.

That's why all adults say don't have sex or experiment until your 18 or old enough or even finish school, cause this is what happens, they have warned, and they have done their job and you never listened and think through about the consequences have you? so this is what you have now to go through cause of that :l teenagers shouldn't even have sex at this age or at any age below 20...

Tell your best mate to consider adaption, cause it isn't a good idea to have a baby at this age, especially, when both of you needs to finish your education, and that wont be able to happen if you have someone else to look after

Sorry to be harsh but, you made your bed now you have to lie in it. You knew the possibility that she would get pregnant when you had sex with her, there's always a chance. Personally, I don't think she should keep the baby (she should give it up for adoption) but that's HER choice. Even though you helped make it, you really have no choice in what she does now. Not really fair is it? But that's life.

U shudnt have done it without CONDOMS!!! Like I'm not tryna b rude but come on use your brain! PROTECTION Is always needed I'd atleast make sure she's on birth control! No one told you tew experiment with your friend! you shudda thought of the consequences before hand but you didnt and now look! That was a very dum decision and all I cud say is next time think with your brain and not your d*ck! Srry if I sound rude but its called toughlove! And as for your friend well she cud die from pregnacy if she has the baby because her bodies not fully developed so I don't think its safe! Good Luck

why is your life over, she's the one who is pregnant.

there is not anything you can possibly do to stop her if she has made up her mind to keep the child but support her decision just try and be there any way possible

YOUR LIFE IS NOT OVER! A baby can be the best thing in your life. Suck up and deal with it if she wants to keep it let her don't change her mind cause it's her baby if you don't want to take the resonsiblity like you should of been thinking when you were experimenting Gosh... I thought 13 year olds could buiy condoms.

Laugh at yourself. That's a good thing to do.

forget about the morons who's being jerks about this.

you did help make the baby, and it is what you get for help making the baby. just try to be there for her as much as possible. tell your parents and see if they can help you at all. it's going to be a hard thing to do, but it's what you have to do. I probably wouldn't put it up for adoption with somebody you don't know at all and bad things could happen to your child. she could possibly take online schooling - which is like homeschool expect you take online classes. I'm sure her parent's and family will help her. if she's sick, be there for her. if she's in the hospital, be there and hold her hand. if she's at the doc's go with her. you're going to have to give up some things, but it's what's needed.

you going to have to try to make money too. sell some things you don't need. yard sell, newspaper, anything.