13 and pregnant

im scared I just found out im pregnant but im only 13 me and my boyfriend were playing around in his room (not in a wrong way) and he kissed my cheek and I told him I havent had 1 of thooes scenc 1st grade and he was like let me remind you how it goes...

and he started 2 makeout with me but it went too far and now im pregnant it wasnt expected to happen or else he would have used a condom but im was not mentally ready or emontially ready and I dont believe in abortion but sometimes I think it ok in certin seiuations like mine I really dont want to tell my parents they will freak please help me and please dont be negative because I no I screwed up

well unless your boyfriend knows you should discuss this with him and if he leaves you then talk to your parents for help because I know if I got pregnant id probley go an live wit my boyfriend, but if he cant help me and ends up leavin me I would turn to my mom because she said she will always love me not matter what

Ok...I know you don't want to, but you really do need to tell your parents. Even if you don't tell them, they'll find out once you start swelling up. It's not something you can hide, rather if you talk to them calmly and as an adult, they should respect the fact that you came and talked to them. You also have to understand that there's always a chance of getting pregnant during any sorta sex. Even a condom is not a 100% guarantee of keeping you safe.

Well first off, I'm very sorry to hear that. Teenage pregnancy is a scary thing for a lot of girls. And I totally understand what you mean by it just sort of happened. In the heat of the moment, it's hard to say no. I'm sure you already know this, but if you end up keeping the baby it will be your life. And being 13, you have a lot of your life to live. I'm 16, and if I ever got pregnant I would strongly consider abortion for that reason. Just remember that everything happens for a reason, and whatever decision you choose, everything will end up being okay. Just follow your heart, and the longer you wait to tell your parents the harder it's going to be. So just take a deep breath and do it. Good luck hun

well the first thing you need to do is tell your parents
YOU cant handle this by yourself
sure theyll be mad
but then theyll help you and help you decide what to do with your baby
if you want an abortion youll need to see a doctor
an abortion might be the best thing now for you
because your much too young to understand how to take care of a baby, you cant support it because you have no money, and it will stop you being able to go to school for a while, so it would affect your life, social life, education, ect
and your parents would end up having to take care of it for you
at the end of the day though, its your decision
and if your willing to sacrifice your time and social life for a while
then keep it
but do tell your parents so they can help you rthrough this
because you need someone to help you
also you need to LEARN about sex before you go off having it
learn about as well as a male and female reproductive system
birth control, contraception, pregnancy and sti/stds
don’t have sex until you know the consequences involved with it
because the main reason why kids and teens get pregnant and get stds
is because of a lack of sex education

I am 13 and would hate to be in your position.
I would probably tell my mum because she is the closest person to me but you could tell anyone you feel most comfortable with.if you cant try texting if you have a phone to that person.just remember their is always abortion or you could have the baby and keep it or adopt it.if you do keep it then your parenrs could always act as if the baby is your little brother or sister and treat it in that way.
but remember you have to get help before people start to notice
thats my advice
xx
good luk

why cant I just keep it between me and my boyfriend im rich I can pay abortion and my mom would never know could I do that?!?!?

I mean my answer above why cant she just do what I put above

calm down sweetie... now you do need to tell your parents because they can help you through this .. I suggest either abortion or adoption honey... it is scary but you will get thru this

I've had a lot of friends that have been in your situation sweetie.. I am only a year older but I know exactly how you feel just from experience with people I know. first of all, listen to everybody else.. you have to tell your parents. if you dont then there just guna see you and proly be more mad that you didnt just tell them. every parents gunna get mad its a common thing for them to care about you like that. you gota tell them. they will help you through this. some kids I know told there parents and they helped em threw it and there actually taking care of the baby but since your a lil younger you may have to either abort it or put it up for adoption. just please tell your parents its the best thing to do in this situation I promise you. *(:

I dont know if you have already told your parents, but I hope you're getting ready to...adoption is a much better option, however you need to see a doctor and make sure your body is capable of carrying a baby right now, you're only 13 and not fully developed yet, some 16-18 year olds even have a hard time carrying babies (well even full grown women do, but that's a different subject)...you have to remember that every act of sex, even with 3 forms of birth control you can still get pregnant...and sweetie, you're just a kid yourself, and kids raising kids sometimes doesn't work out very well. Talk to your parents and tell them you need to see a doctor, and if you can carry this baby to full term, you really should, it's not that babies fault that you messed up, babies are never mistakes, they just happen and it's innocent life shouldnt be taken from it because of you're mistake.