wow 13 girl you are young and the younger you are the harder it will be on you your body your family and schooling just because your friend has s e x at 12 doesnt mean you have to you know theres a thing called peer presure and you seem to be having that yeah s. e. x. it isnt a bad thing but hey what are the consequences pregnancy stds aids all that yes there are condoms and say you get pregnant and decide you dont want the child and decide abortion is your best option that could limit you from having children later on in life... Girl you have your whole life ahead of you party a little, get drunk a little, hook up a little, have fun and make sure thats all out of your system before you get pregnant because there will be none of that when the baby comes unless youre going to have the support of your family to watch YOUR child when you go out and party it up... Look im 15 going on 16 in november and im 3 months pregnant and I know it sound hypocritical for me to say but believe me its not the easiest thing to do. And would you be able to provide for you child the way you've dreamed about it, spoiling your kid with brand name things, lots of toys, would you be able to fufill there every need every wish every desire at 13...just think about it hun