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How can I lose 18.5 pounds by june 1st?? I used to weigh 130. Went down to 115. And now I weigh 124 again. I want to get down to like 107 and stay there. How many calories a day should I eat? I always try to eat healthy and then I just binge at nigh...
Someone told me that I was sucky at kissing. I want to know what I did wrong. Can you get better at it? How do you makeout good? Like hot and fast and good?? Any tips? What do you do with your tounge exactly? Do you just leave your mouth open w/ ...
Someones friend told me that he said I sucked at kissing... Can you even be bad at kissing?? Got any tips? Like what do you do w/ your tounge?
how to I get back on my diet??? I gained 5 pounds in 2 weeks. I hear you can lose it in the amount of time you gain it. how many calories should I eat a day?? I want to look like sarah jessica parker's body and I have a belly bump. thats the main par...
I have a belly fat. like im skinny everwhere but there. do you think if I lose like 10 more pounds I will lose it there too?? also how do I get rid of that? should I eat a certian kind of food? do abs?
I'm at exactly the healthy weight for my height. but I have a nasty stomach. like not flat. but I look good everyhwere else. so I'm thinking of losing like 10 more pounds to get rid of the stomach fat. how do I get rid of it?? and how do I stay on my...
I've been off my diet for a week now. and everyday I try to get back on. but it donest work. how do I get back on??? I don't know whats making me eat. but I eat shiiit and dont stop. I want the metal diet metnality back!
how to give amazing head. go into details :) from unzippin to the end...
ok. I gained 4 pounds since Monday. I had 4 bad days. and I havnt been able to get back on my diet!!! what do I do tomorrow for food?!??! how do I metally get back on the diet horse?
how do you not be uptight. I didnt think I was uptight. but then someone told me I was (on facebook Define Me thing haha... yeah) but anyway... I hate being told that I worry and am uptight. because I dont like worrying. how do I be more a layed ba...
ok I hate worrying. but I do it sometimes. im so comfortable w/ being myself around people my age and younger. but I liek a guy 2 years older than me. annd I don't know how to be myself. im kinda like hyper sometimes but like also not. I don't know im...
I just gave a guy head for the first time. he didnt come. what does that mean? am I doing something wrong?
I don't know whats wrong with me. I like cant make any really good friends. I have all these friends who have their groups and im kinda just friends w/. I dont like have a best friend. am I doing something wrong that people dont like me? am I trying ...
please take the time to read this all to help me out please. here are some stats- I am 5'2. 130 pounds. I am a lacto-ovo vegitarian. for those of you who don't know what that is. it means that I DO NOT EAT ANY ANIMALS. including fish (they are very mu...
ok. I started a diet since I gained 10 pounds. so now I want to lose at least 20 pounds. I know what to do. I need to count what I eat. im using the point system kinda right now. I am 5' 2 and im eating about 17 points a day. is that a little enoug...
my skin is a pinkish tone. my face is kinda pale , but kinda golden. how do i get my face to look like those people who have it bronzed, but it also looks natural? (like no pinkness, and they look tan without being super tan) like... Vanessa Anne Hud...
I went to florida. ate normal (whatever my heart desired, without binging) and gained 10 pounds. I was already trying to lose 10 or so pounds so now I need to lose 20 or so pounds. what should I do? my mom says my weight gaining is because I'm a vegi...
ok. I was doing good on my starving diet for like 3 weeks and lost 6 pounds by eating 300-600 calories a day. and I was feeling good and then I started eating. and now after like 2 weeks of eating / binging I feel HORRIBLE HORRIBLE. I gained 7 pounds ...
are semi-sweet chocolate chips vegan? i was reading that u can eat them ifyou're a vegan. but on the package it says "dairy in here"
how long did it take for nicole richie to lose that much weight? how much did she used to weigh before she lost weight? anyone know? also how did she lose that all? what did she eat everyday? same with lindsey lohan?!?!?! i know she was kinda bulim...
how do you lose weight when you're a vegan??? because all I eat are carbs ... like bread... need to lose weight! fast!
does anybody know some song names that are played in the store Hollister? I always here ones that I like. but dont ever look at what is playing? I love the beachy laid-back sound of their music
I cannot fall asleep lately. any suggestions??
I never dance at dances like homecoming and stuff because eveyone like grindes and stuff and I feel stupid doing that. any tips??
I just found out that marshmellows and jello have animal byproducts in them. what other foods have animal used in them that I don't know of?? anyone??
is flyleaf a christian band??
someone PLEASE tell me how to become anorexic. what do you do once you starve for a while. then get hungry? and pllease no one telling me its bad for you.
does anybody know how nicole richie lost so much weight? and HOW LONG it took her? I want to be as skinny as all those tiny celebs like nicole, mary-kate olsen, micha barton, kiera knightley, and flyleaf singer. nicole richie used to be so chunky, and ...
how do you get your skin on your face to look perfect. like all smooth and bronzed looking. I always have an ugly facal color. I want it like the picture
ok, I have been eating between 300-500 calories for about a week now. and today I just got really hungry and ate probably about 1500. and I feel horrible. how do you stay anorexic for a long time?? I give in to my hunger any tips on how to become anor...