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My Names MandyLoo
I'm 23 Years Old
I have a gorgeous son who is 4 months old.
I'm engaged to a wonderful man who has my heart.
I'm honest, i wont beat around the bush, and will give you just the facts.
I'm PRO-CHOICE and an atheist. I stand very firm in my beliefs on both of these also.
I've lived a great life and done things i shouldn't have, but it all lead me to where i am and i woudn't change any of it.
I can't pick a career to save my life.
I've worked in tattoo/piercing shops.
I've worked at strip clubs and bars.
I've worked at desk jobs.
I was a cake decorator for 3 years.
I want to do it all but i dont have the time.
I'd rather stay at home with my son.

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Can anyone tell me why im so shallow? I always go for guys because of there looks instead of what I should really go for PERSONALITY.. am I the only person that does this, anyone got any kind of advice??
Ok, im just curios why does eveyone want to be blonde? The color is so hard to achieve and mantain. Most of the time it ruins your hair, and you have to dye the roots like every month, && it doesnt look good on most people. with dark eyebrows.. And I...
ok, I've read some of the questions on here, and I feel abnormal, im 16, and I've never done nething with a guy, besides make out, I didnt know that so many teens are having sex, at such a young age, this blows my mind. so what do you think am I wei...
Well I have dyed my hair from light brown, to what was suppose to be dark brown, but it turned out almost black, but im not complaining because it kinda cute, and everyone says that it suits me.. the only problem however is that it doesnt look good s...
ok one of my best friends is really mean to me sometimes. I know its because of her problems at home and stuff but this is really making me sad.. Somedays she will call me fat and say stuff like omg you are so lazy you need to go run, and you know I co...
Where can you but a cheap coach purse or chanel purse? it doesnt matter if they are fake I just want a cute one that doesnt cost that much.
Would any of you guys ever brake up with your girlfriend, just because she dyed her hair to a color that you didnt really like on her?
Ok, so I have had dyed my hair from brown, to blonde, back to brown and now black, im not sure what I want, with the blonde I felt really pretty and preppy, but, the roots showed to quick and my hair didnt look all that healthy, and since it was still ...
does anyone know how much the hannah montana shirts cost? I think that you can get them at walmart, but do you know how much they cost?
Is anybody here planning on going to vanderbuilt university in nashville tennessee?
Well im on the track team, and I need some shoes, does anyone no of any kind of good running shoes, I have a pair of NB, and they really arnt that great 4 RUNNING, so anyone know of some good ones?
well, im tired of the color of my hair, I get bord easily with diff. styles, I want to grow my hair out long now, I also want to dye my hair blondish, I think. well im not sure what I want to do to my hair I had blonde highlights, and they looked kin...
Im 5'4" and im 16 years old, I weigh 150, I've gained like sooo much weight over the summer and I still havent got it off, what is my ideal weight for my hight? I have started drinking water a lot, and I've tried to exercise, even though I've been sl...
my hair has been brown for a while now, a couple of months ago I got blonde highlights in it, but I didnt like the blonde it was like yellowy and neways I dyed it dark brown, now the dark brown is faded, and its a very ugly yellowy brown, I guess the...
Well I've liked this guy, for a while now. and I want to go out with him, but im not sure about it because he smokes pot. its not like im going to marry him one day or something so it really doesnt matter to me. would you go out with a guy that does dr...
Ok, I want a hollister jacket, there is 2 that I like, a navy one and a white one.. the white one will match more things, but the navy one is sooo pretty, it makes me mad that I have to decide lol... I already have a cream colored pullover from there b...
I need to make forty dollars in like 2 days, I want this Hollister jacket really really really bad and it is on sale and it will probably only be that cheap 4 a couple of days, and my mom said that she is tired of giving me money, and if I want it...
Ok, most people think that this is just a good breakup phrase, but for me this is so real... I start talking to guys and when they show that they are interested in taking it further I get scared I guess and bac off.. I go through like 5 guys a yr.....
Im 16 and I havent had a boyfriend in at least 2 years. Every time I start talking to guys I always find something wrong with them, or they deside they dont want to date me,, it makes me so mad... On the weekends while my friends are out on there stu...
Ok, im a sophomore in highschool, and it has always been my dream to be a cheerleader at the highschool. But I think that I am to fat to be one... I mean im not like disgusting fat im like 5"4' and I weigh like 150, I know that is pretty big but im v...
im thinking about getting drk. brown hair with blonde chunks in it. im needing a new syle and I think that this would be cute, ill post a pic of my hair the color it is, do you think I should get blonde chunks in it? I think it would be cute and diff...
Well im 16, and I love going shopping, I spend like at least $40, a wk on just clothes and I still want more, neway my parents dont want to spend any more money on me, and I have to get a job, But im afraid to... I make straight A's, im on the track ...
I've been to the salon many times to get my haircut. Everytime I ask to get short side swept bangs. They never turn out right. When I starighten my hair they go tooo flat and look like crap. I dont know what or how to do it right...
Ok, im bout to tell my parents that im going to a friends house but we are leaving there and going sumwhere else, and im scared.. I've nvr been a bad kid before... and advice?
Ok, there is this guy at skool, that I think is cute, he gave me his # and said that I better call him, well I waited for a wk. and my friend is good friends with him, anyways he kept telln her to tell me to call him. Well last nite she came over and I...
What would you do if you found out a guy you liked had herpes??? My best friend just found out that her boyfriend(they didnt do any thing)!!! neways she just found out that he had herpes, well he didnt tell her but his friend did... What do you think...
Ok, im like so paranoid about what people think about me. It sucks really, I mean its soo bad, that I wont go in like a gas station without taking an hour to get ready, put make up on, and fix my hair. I have even turned sweet guys down, because I ...
Ok, I have been looking at some of the comments on here, and some people are really really rude, I don't know why people. are so mean, thats not just true here, people everywhere are really mean and I dont know y.. is it that they are miserable so the...
Will you look at my pictures, and tell me... Do you think that me and my neice look alike?
Ok guys, tell me would any of yall date me? Based on looks you know because its not like you know me...
This guy likes me and I like his friend... They both gave me their numbers, but now, the one that has liked me since 7th grade (were in 10th now) said that his friend better not date me or he would be really mad and they are like best friends, what wou...
Ok, there is this guy that has liked me since we were like in the 7th grade. Today he gave me a note that asked me if id hang out with him sometime. He also told me that he loved my smile, Well anyways I like his BEST friend and he said he would dat...
Ok, I have a huge problem that is ruining my life. IM SHY! it sucks so bad, I cant talk many people, and I cant look people in the eye. when my teachers talk to me I just look up a little and answer in this really tiny voice, it makes me so mad. I cant...
Does birth control make you gain weight? I've asked a lot of people. and most of them said that it made them gain weight? the pills... does it??
I have quit drinking coke, and soft drinks (for the most part!) and I drink at least 2 bottles of water a day. I have also started running track, and working out at the gym, but I havnt really changed what I eat. Will this help me lose weight, even t...
I just seen this question asked by someone, and I decided that its a vey good question. So tell me, how old do I look???
Ok, I hate when people. Ask this question, especcially if they are freaking skinny, but im not skinny, I just want to know. At skool I've been called fat before. Can someone give me there opinion, and please dont be mean!
Ok, I met this guy at the gym. He is friends with my friend. She tried to get us hooked up. He thinks im pretty and he gave her his number to give to me. But I've never actually talked to this person, and I like him because hes HOT. and not because h...
OK, there is this really hot guy, and I really want him, he is so hot and nice, and he is engaged! I know this is really bad of me, to mess with another girls boyfriend. but he seems interested in me, SORT OF, I mean he is emgaged but he acts like he...
Ok im 16, and my parents dont let me do anything. I barly get to do anything. SERIOUSLY! They have no reason to not trust me. I make straight A's I've not really ever got in trouble at school, since I was like in 5th grade. Im afraid to tell my dad b...
Ok, I shave my legs every other day, but I cant get rid of the spots on my legs. I've even tried going to the tanning bed. It did help a bit, but after I quite my face broke out. can N1 help me plez!!! I've tried every razor and shaving cream invi...
OK, im not sure bout other places, but here in TN, In the US, North Face Jackets are "N" They are really cute and they have so many cute colors. I just want to know if anybody knows where to buy them. I went to NORTHFACE.com and I didnt see any of t...
Ok, im a natural brunette, and I've always wanted to be blonde. I've tried it before but it never works out.. I want sort of a champange, dk blonde,, the other day, I dyed it that color and it turned out 2 light, and I was to scared to try another bl...
When I dyed my hair blonde, I looked for a toner at walmart and I didnt see one. I think if I would have had one I could have kept my hair blonde, but it turned out to blonde so I just dyed it back brown. What does the toner do? is it like a dye or l...
Ok I did the biggest no and o ever. I dyed my hair twice in one day. I started with blonde and didnt like it, so I went and bought a dk. Brown to go over the top. It looks ok, I guess, but now im afraid that I really damaged it... What can I do to fix ...