Sure I have thought about what would have happened if I hadn't stayed with my husband, but I am really happy that we have been together through all of these years and of course we have our issues, but we work through them! I feel like out motivation to be with each other is what has kept us together (we have been long distance twice for a year or longer each time)! You have to really want it, and if you are not 100% sure that you want to be with her for the rest of your life, you may need to take your time with the whole marriage thing (we didn't get married until I was almost 20!)!