22 years-old French girl in England.

I have come to think that in life you should be chilled, take your time for everything, not worry too much about what other people think, do and look like, and that most people that try to be like others would be much more respected if they were their own (even if a bit diff or wierd) selves. The intelligent people will respect you for not doing things just because other people do. If you think people are stupid, don't show it but don't feel bad about it either, and stick to your own opinions, ideals and ways, although you should try to understand why others think the way they do, and do this for yourself too and stay self-critical.
But one day you will find cool self-confident people that think like you and you will be happy to have waited and stayed faithful to your vision of things.

Girls, know that guys won't care if you havn't done it all before, most of the time they will actually respect you more for it.
If they want to go for a girl like that it most likely means that they are immature or are trying to prove things to other people and are fake, so don't worry about them, also guys respect and actually like more girls that are strong-minded and independent, and that don't do just what boys want them to do.
Also when you do something for the first time, first of all you should'nt have wondered beforehand "how do I do this OMG is it complicated?" If you do something with feeling and sensitivity and sincerely and at the right moment there is little chance you will do it wrong, and it is actually the only way that you should ever do it.
But also, do it with the right person.
People regret to have done something more often than they regret to NOT have done something.
Don't try to convince yourself that it's cool or "alright" to do something.
If you just NEVER get to think it's alright, then what ?
Just relax.
Everything you do should come from a need, an impulse to do it, not from an external pressure, a fear of not being normal if you don't do it. And if you never feel like doing something, that's cool. With time and life experience, you will know yourself better and that may change... or not. In both cases it's cool, just be who you are.
Also remember that if you mess up with something that you didn't even want to do in the first place you would really be mad at yourself and find yourself really stupid so just chill out, it's never too late to do anything, whereas it's very easy to do it too early.

There is a lot I could say on the subject of love and relationships, but basically everyone is different, some people like to try, experiment, they are "curious", others like to just wait and do things because of a certain person, not just to have done it. And they like it to be just at the right moment and to be when you really can't help but do it because it's the right time with the right person and they have waited almost too long already.

All people are respectable, except maybe for the ones that do things just to be like others or something.
But even if you have made that mistake and regret it it's ok your life is not over !
Just relax, focus on other things for a while and everything will get back in order !
Also, sex, beauty, "fitness" , AREN'T everything. Remember that it is in the interest of some people for you to think that, some will go as far as making you feel ugly and fat to sell you some creams and stuff, however what the real people feel about that is different.

Girls, make up, or big boobs doesn't replace a good personnality. Most guys will agree. And once they have grown up a bit it becomes even more true.
So girls concentrate on being someone.
Etc etc.

I also like to give advice on food, as I have always had problems with overeating and a LITTLE BIT of anorexia as well, and have come to read and experiment a lot about food.
I now eat a lot more intelligently thanks to the things I have learnt, and don't get as extreme and feel much better nowadays.
I would love to help anyone with their eating disorders so don't hesitate to ask for help.

Skin problems ask me too, before you've ruined your skin with all those nasty creams and peelings and face-drying products that DON'T EVEN WORK !!

I can also help girls who are having a hard time with their hair, mine is long and very thick, and it has taken me years to learn all the secrets that have led me to have the nice smooth hair I have today so if I can save your time that way don't hesitate to ask for advice !

I like to give my opinion on a lot of things in general and people usually find it quite useful so... don't hesitate to ask....