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  • Da Vinci Code
    The Da Vinci Code is fiction. You know that right?

  • Celibacy
    It's very unhealthy. What is better is speaking to a psychologist about your sexual repression and getting proper treatment.

  • Voices and Spirits
    oh_ehm_gee_its_me, what you are experiencing isn't supernatural but indicates possible Schizophrenia. You need to discuss with a mental health professional and probably take some anti psychotic medication for a while.

  • Good love song for my profile?
    Beloved - VNV Nation

  • Free Photoshop?
    Use Shareaza and download it. Make sure your anti virus is up to date.

  • Verbal abuse...
    How are you defining 'verbal abuse'? And turn off your caps.

  • I feel so jealous
    Try learning to spell.

  • It takes forever for me to cum
    This is entirely normal. One thing you might want to bear in mind is whether or not you might be trying too hard.

  • camera helpp.
    Handsdown the Nikon D80.

  • Do you think its acceptable to have black only schools?
    No of course not. Racism is racism and shouldn't be tolerated. And I'm speaking here as someone who has actually experienced going to an official whites only school in Rhodesia.

  • Book recommendations!
    Stranger in a strange land and Otherworld (Tad Williams).

  • cant get my music to stay on itunes
    Get rid of Itunes. It's awful. Use one of the better alternatives available.

  • December 21, 2012
    It's nonsense and as badly researched as a lot of pieces are on the History Channel.

  • Whats your religion
    Buddhist.

  • Buddhism.
    Tell them that the only reason they are so concerned about your religion is because they are so insecure about theirs. Don't try and debate them, you can't reason with people when they're being stupid.

  • *Buddah and God*
    Buddha was a real man who became Enlightened and taught others to do the same. God is an imaginary being. And no, Buddhism doesn't teach reincarnation or that the Buddha should be worshipped as a god.

  • What's the best meditation technique?
    Try here, and no it's not listening to music or trying to achieve an altered state: http://www.wildmind.org/meditation

  • Buddhism??
    Are you still interested?

  • Meditating
    Genuine meditation does yes. But there are quite a few things out there calling themselves meditation that aren't.

  • Epicurus
    I'm a big fan of Epicurus. More people should know about him.

  • Voices and Spirits
    You need to talk to a mental health professional.

  • How to decorate zen style?
    First learn zazen. Practice for a decade or two. Then ask the question again.

  • Practicing Buddhism
    You begin by deciding that you want to know the truth, rather than accepting any belief system.

  • Can you be a rich buddhist?
    Buddhism isn't about getting rid of desire. As human beings, desire is natural and healthy. The point is having insight into the false idea of self that identifies with desire and aversion.

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