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hey im jasmine
ive got blue and black hair now
when ive got air in my lungs
and a skateboard in my hand... im happy
i love to skate
and i collect skateboards as well (73 so far)
im an artist...i paint, sew, draw, create ect
as well as that i also make dolls, jewellery, clothes, shoes, bags, hats and just about everything else
I love Piercings! I have got 36 of them
no tatts yet though = no money either
i love riding skateboards from the 1970's
i like spandex pants!
I play guitar and drums
I can juggle, and do lots of other stuff
Im pretty old fashioned and old-school
I love horror, I sleep in a car bed
i like to wear stupid looking hats
i always wear the same jeans
and I definantly don’t take life too seriously
i love ZOMBIES! :D
and i love romance in almost all its forms
I don’t believe in any religion
i dont respect any of it either
...words dont hurt me
I do what i love, and dress how i feel
I pretty much live in a world of my own...
and were all mad here :]
i know a lot about a lot of different things,
so im just hear to give you all advice :]
youmakemeesmile1's Advice page 3
(I was referring to bigandripped)
But they will wait long enough. Some of them are just jerks... your a perfect example.
What is Bigandripped talking about? Dont listen to him whatsoever, not many guys are like him. If you dont want to, dont do it, and he will just have to accept that until your ready. I know its easier said than done, but dont risk hurting yourself men...
Take a step back and look at what your arguing about, if its not that big of a deal, tell him that. You will probably both agree its not worth the negative energy.
Shes definately selfish, it sounds like shes in it for the things. Relationships arent about buying things for eachother its about the LOVE. I think shes a gold digger.
If by everyone you mean YOU... your wrong. No one else thinks that about her and neither should you. Obviously if you knew her, you wouldnt say that because then youd be lying... but of course we all know how good of a liar you are.
Eh, I admit Ive done it before. Its not a wrong feeling to be insecure. If you really like this guy, you have to trust that he wont hurt you in the long run. Keep the other guy as a friend, which I know is hard to do.
Go with Jeff! You want Jeff! Ive heard you say it a million times how much you want him! And if your really that unsure dont choose yet! You really dont have to. Date both of them until you are ready with your decision, that can change eventually.
Step back and look at the big picture... see if what your crying for is worth your tears.
Try squats and lunges youll feel them very quickly.
If you have comcast digital cable there are some programs there that you can do ab work to. Also, if you need it quick, i would suggest going on a low carb diet, because thats where your carbs go to. Make sure that you alternate days from cardio to ab...
They have the eh, machines that you can push (go to lowes or another home improvement store) and it will evenly spred the seeds along your lawn, and then you should put down hay which will help the grass grow quicker.
You should be fine right after your period because you ovulate some 10 days into your period cycle. But you can never be too safe.
Dont worry about it! Thats really small for your height. Im 5ft 1 and weigh more than you, but you need to realize that muscle weighs more that fat, so if your very muscular your weight will show up higher than it would if it was fat. But trust me, yo...
Do something meaningful that came up in a conversation. Like for one of my X's I got him a guitar pick holder because he said he was always loosing his guitar picks. You just need to listen to what he says. You could always get him a hat or somethin...
Well, look at it this way... they arent going to change, so dont worry about it. And well, if it does end up being a problem (I dont know how) talk to your doctor, they will know.
That had nothing to do with the situation. Im just saying that why couldnt you just have been like "No" instead of wording it in a way that SOUNDS like your telling her that she doesnt have common sense? (Im reffering to what he said)Its called common...
Hahaha, you sound like a girl feeling hard to get. So basically your saying, that you dont hold doors for girls all the time because you want them to feel special when you do? Yeah, thats not the truth, girls DO feel specail when you hold the door for...
Trust me, Im a girl, and I am very well aware that there IS and inbetween. You may not agree with me, but I Know that there are many guys that i have NO IDEA about, and you know, thats ok. Its going to come with time, so you just have to wait until yo...
Awww, the love thing is good! Just remember not to crowd her too much, unless she wants to be. If she REALLY "loves" you she will want to be crowded. But, we all know, even at my age (15) love is more of a lust. You see, I would want to be crowded by...
You really have to answer the question: Is this guy really the person you want to spend the rest of your life with? Otherwise hes just another time your life leading you up to the person you will be with. Now, Im not saying dump him, but what if he re...
Eh, but the thing is, you know its not right. What if your husband was doing that to you? ITS WRONG. Look at all of the things that could happen if you were caught. What about your daughter? What about your husband? How nastey of a divorce would that...
Hes going off to college! Hes going to be gone for a while. I would suggest that you keep in touch with him, and do what you want with him when hes home. Unless hes at a close college, Id look into another guy. Who says you cant always keep him in th...
Ok, what I would do if I were you would tell your mom that you have really bad period cramps and want to go on birth control to help relieve them. She will take you to the women's doctor, and you can either pretend like you really do have them or you c...
So basically you then decide to be the bad guy? Ok, so Im a nice girl, and I only get stepped on sometimes when I dont give a boy what I want but then the nice guy comes along and I know those bad boys arent worth my time. Not all girls at bad/mean! Yo...
Yeah, but they can be pretty expensive, search colored contacts on google you will find what you need.
Flirt with him the whooooole night. You know, the sly smile, playing with your hair, Putting your hand on him whenever you get the chance. He will take the hints, and then its up to him to use them and if he feels the same way i am 100% positive he w...
oh and PS... bigandripped, you really need to be nicer. People come here for advice, not to feel worse about themselves.
lol, no, your not pregnant, dont worry about it. There is nooo chance. To get pregnant he actually has to be inside of you.
Ohhhh no! You better not be cutting yourself! There are soooo many things wrong with that. You are better than that! And you know its wrong. Why would you be doing something that can severely hurt yourself? Pleeeeeease go and get help. This is someth...
Ok, dont listen to bigandripped... hes 23 and out of school. Different school relationships work! Dont worry about it! Ive been in plenty. If its meant to work out it will. You really cant stress about it because what control do you have? Thats in som...
It depends on how attatched he is to his babie's mother. Youre stepping into a triangle if your going to get tangled up with someone who has a kid. And thats not a good triangle to be in. But hey, your the one that knows the boy. Talk to him.
lol... wow, I feel like the baby of the bunch. And Shawn, arent you a little OVER confident? By... A LOT? Ok ahestand hmm... lets see, you dont have to get rid of either of them. So there are two obvious options: 1. You keep both guys 2. Tell Bradly y...
Oh wow, did he really just say that? Are you living in like the 50's shawn? Because we are modern girls. We are going to GO TO WORK, we arent going to DO YOUR LAUNDRY, we can we be just like you if we want. It sounds really shallow the way you said yo...
Ok, when he looks at you, look up for a second, look back down, and then look up, and so on and so forth. It will show him that you keep thinking of him. Make cute funny faces at him when he looks at you, with a half smile. And then giggle, definate...
Ok, well first of all, take the whole doing things past kissing verrrrrrry slow. I know your only 13, but I dont really know how far you go with girls. So, take it slow, because youll run out of things to do shortly. And this is something that you MU...
Ok, what it sounds like he might be doing (im not positive) is pushing you away, hoping youll back off and break up with him. Some guys dont have enough respect to break up with girls themselves and decide to act really weird and mean like that. Ask ...
Ok, Ive been in this position quite a few times, just with maybe 3 boys. Face it... your going to have to hurt someone, you just have to do it with class. If bradly comes back into your life THATS GREAT (as long as Jeff is out)! If he comes back in, ...
hahaha bf gf fight on my comments...lol... its all good you guys, it wasnt meant to hurt anyone, it was just trying to help me and i appreciate it! Thanks for your help!
Ok, so, your keeping him around because you need the company not because you like him for who he is, well, at least thats what it sounds like. Make a pro-con list, of things you like about him, and things you dont. Then rate all of them from 1-4 of ho...
Ok, ready? Heres what you do. You make a list of all of the things that you want to let Bradly know. Everything you would want him to hear about your feelings, and what situation your in. Take a fifteen minute break once your finished and then go back...
lol... wow. Eh, yeah, this isnt something that you need advice on, because it will happen naturally. No practiced line, no action is going to convince a girl to have sex with you. Its going to happen when its supposed to. If you really wanted to, then...
We may be young, but it doesnt mean that we dont know whats right and wrong. Like, I know plenty of guys that would wait, but I just havent found one I like yet.
Ok, so we are just going to have to realize that we are going to have very different opinions and perspecitives because im a 15 year old girl and your a 23 year old boy. Maybe it is in my head, but Im sure boys think that girls are confusing. And I do...
Your contradicting yourself! One second its "Your never going to keep a guy around without having sex with him." And then the next "Dont worry". Ohhh, and about posting it on a forum? Yeah... people ask how to kiss on these things i think Im in a bette...
I would let him know how you really feel. Lying wont get you anywhere. Now, that doesnt mean you can keep some things to yourself. Write down what things you want to tell him, and then look at them fifteen minutes later and decide whether its reason...
lol, wow. Men are supposed to repect women! Not force them to do something they dont want to do! You would think it would be the opposite way around.
But you see, the problem is that i dont want to loose him as a friend! So I dont know what to do that will keep him as a friend, but will let me know how he feels. Boys are very complicated. Its one of those cant live with them, cant live without the...
hahaha, he makes me laugh. I dont think that all boys think that way. At least, I waaas pretty sure until he said something.
I dont know, lol, like I want him bad, but Ive kinda lost hope. Like he would be the perfect boyfriend and that makes me back off. I want him bad, but I dont want to make myself look stupid in the process.