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im well aware of that. people make mistakes it's not something I do on a regular basis
It sounds to me like you are young, and I wouldnt worry about it if you guys are that close then you will have more fights, they way sisters do, but you will also fight harder to stay friends. If you want to tell her how you feel just be nice about it....
No I think it is kind of silly for her to not like you for that reason maybe she has others reasons behind it but your age difference really is not that bad at all.
I would say it's too soon to tell and it's probably just nerves, but I can't say much im having a bit of my own pregnancy scare myself. Try not to stress about it and wait to see if you get your period. Stressing can cause it to be late.
moisturize your face before you put on foundation, or even add a drop of lotion to your foundation on a sponge and apply them together.. moisturizing before hand works better for me. use a powder for to hide oily spots. nose, forehead and chin are usua...
look it up on google or something but heres some signs. missed period, bloating, spotting around the time ur supposed to get ur period, tender swollen breasts & nipples, irritability, fatigue, sensetive to odors, frequent urination, u really should t...
oh my goodness. if you are lonely sweetie talk to someone but dont have a baby. i know you would love it and it would give you something to cherish but u could never take care of it taking care of your own baby is nothing like taking care of your ba...
i have friends who are sooo smart and constantly bragged about but they hate it cause at the same time the pressure is on 24/7 for them to keep up to everybodys expectations. wouldnt u rather be normal. if your good in school, a good friend, dance or p...
you dont take a break with someone u want to spend the rest of your life with. if your having problems and thats why u want to get away for a while then you have to figure out a way to fix them.. taking a break isnt going to make any of ur problems go ...
just kiss her. suck it up, dont be nervous, and kiss her. theres no special way to do it. if u want to make it easier maybe when your sitting together watching a movie or something kiss the side of her face or forehead. she'll think its cute for one, a...
you guys obviously dont click and your obviously not as comfortable around him as u could be so maybe u two jumped into it too fast..
Yupp. no matter how nervous you are, itll pay off =) dont worry about rejection either. if it happens, it happens.
u two need more communication sweetheart. if she org**med im sure u would know, maybe shes just uncomfortable with it, still nervous maybe? just talk to her about it.
you should be able to tell if he feels the same like u should just get that feeling when ur around him that u kno he loves u.. and if he does then why do u have to say it. u should be content knowing that u guys care alot about eachother without having...
i say just screw him.. dont show him u care & move on. or at least pretend too. if he does have feelings for you he will come around when he realizes he cant use you anymore. it seems like he really relys on you.. but only when he has no one else to go...
whhat. u want to become anerexic? um give your head a shake thats so unhealthy for you. if u want to be skinny then eat properly and work out. but dont aim at being anerexic thats just dumb
it sounds like it. but he may also be jsut a big flirt. ask him
the obvious answer is to eat healthy and exersice.. and the fact that ur a virgin matters why?
um thats gross.. but i guess sh*t happens and theres nothing u can do about it now but hope its kept quiet. theres two things u can do.. either talk to her and hope she agrees to never say anything about it. or just never mention it again and hope she ...
its just irritation dont worry about it.
its probably just from shaving.. it can get irritated and itchy. but if your really worried talk to a docter and see what they think just to be safe.
no thats not how it is at all, dont think like that. Just because they arent ment to spend the rest of their lives together doesnt mean you arent supposed to be here. they were obviously supposed to be together long enough to love eachother and have ch...
people now a days totally over use the "i love you" thing but trust me if you guys are in love you should be able to tell. theres no way to really explain it.most guys dont talk that much about marriage and kids unless they're just trying to sweettalk ...
your not pregnant if you used a condom, but i think your too young.. but if your going to do it be responsible and always use condoms. people i know who started having sex that young always regret it.. so think things through carefully from now on.
no way, dont do it. Why would you lose your virginity to some dick trying to get ass out of you.. your only 15 and you want to go behind the school for a quicky to lose your virginity? sweetheart most girls your age fantisize about losing it romantical...
yeaah i dont know how it could possibly be bad for you
noo.. not unless your hurting urself. haha and its not like im tellin her to do it 20 times a day
how do u not know if you gave him a handjob or not? haha thats a weiiird game. but anyways if you grabbed his penis and stroked up and down then you gave him a handjob.. if you were just touching him and feeling around then you were simply just touchin...
there is no limit. lots of guys are around like 15 minutes.. i know my bf can go for an hour or 10 minutes. depends on the mood your in and how aroused you are.
ooh i also think that if you dont masturbate that you should.. the more you pleasure yourself and get to know your body the easier itll be to enjoy sex
thats a hard one to answer.. is it that you dont feel anything at all or you just dont feel pleasure. he could be small, or your just not enjoying it yet. I remember there was a point when sex was just pointless to me when i first started because i fel...
no problem hun, anytime :)
well ive read many times that douching isnt nessacary. the reason girls discharge is because thats the way your vagina cleans itself. douching to often messes up your bodys natural cleaning cycle. believe me i asked my Gyno about it and she obviouslt k...
im attracted to dicks too, its just something about them. the thing is hun i know you like him but right now hes using you for sex and even in the future if he breaks up with her would you date him. i sure hope not knowing what kind of a dick he can be...
tease your boyfriend not your ex. how would you feel if your boyfriend was craving attention from other girls and doing anything he could to get it. i dont think you'd like it so consider what your doing. its so unfair
if youve been talking to him about it and all he does is apologize than maybe you need to make it more drastic. tell him your going to leave him if things dont change because its really unhealthy for you to deal with that constantly. i know from experi...
is masturbating safe? yuup it is.. do it as long as ur comfortable doing it.
sounds sweet to me haha. if u dont mind smelling like olive oil and gettin all greasin then go hard. have fun and be safe.
weelll im going to have to agree with shesaidhesaid when it comes to that being a hot fetish ;) highlys i think just do w/e your comfortable with but most guys pefer it to be shaved. just dont let it grow wild and at least keep it under control and tri...
yea, feelings changed.. and she cant say she loves you but doesnt know how she feels about you cus that doesnt make any sense. thats not love. maybe try reminding her how much you care for her by showing her.. like maybe surprise her with flowers. Then...
continue flirting and try to get closer with him. see if one of his guy friends knows anything or maybe just take a chance and tell him you kind of like him and see how he reacts. dont be scared.
if you continue letting him have you whenever he feels like it and just dropping you whenever someone else comes along he's going to think he has control over you. if people are going to be mad at you its probably because they're worried you'll just ge...
having someone be unfaithful to you hurts, and its so unfair to you. i think the best thing would be to try and forget about everything with him for a while and make studying your number one priority until things calm down. maybe things werent ment to ...
follow your heart and any gut feelings you get are most likely right.
i dont think its a good idea either... you really want someone else all over your partner. what if it causes problems for you two and what if you regret it. does your partner want to have one as well? getting a friend to do it could cause a lot of awkw...
i personally think having a boyfriend when my family troubles are bad is really helpful because then i know i always have someone to lean on. She may just be saying that so that she has an excuse to go on a break. Be supportive of w/e desicion she make...
i dont understand reallly.. but he sounds like a jerk, dont waste your time. Nothing you say or do will make him stop what hes doing so stop setting yourself up to get hurt.
just be her friend.. act the way you always act. if your awkward or upset around her it will only make things worse. you can probably read her good enough to know whether or not somethings bothering her so just make sure your there to offer to talk or ...
its deffinetly normal for her to not have an orgasim, because its alot harder for girls. try missonary position with pillows under her butt to lift her hips. that will let you go deeper and stimulate her g-spot. try touching and rubbing her clitoris wh...
yes its deffinetly possible. even just to much friction from the rubbing without enough lubrication can cause rawness or slight swelling for a girl after a large amount of sex over and over.